9 days ago my partner of five and a half years left me. Since then he has told me that he hasn't been happy for 7 or 8 months and he isn't in love with me anymore. Six months ago we were both made redundant, we decided it was best that I stay at home with the kids as we already had 2 girls and I was 8 months pregnant with our son. He started work at a new place and seemed to enjoy it but the work force seems to be made up of 18-25 year olds that are all single and enjoy their freedom. After christmas we started arguing a lot, I felt it was anxiety on his part as he was due to have the snip at the beginning of February. He became distant and cold. We said we were going to try and seemed to make a pretty good go of it until he went out with his friends from work the night before he left. He said he would be home about 1 and didn't get home until 6 in the morning . I asked him why and he said he didn't care enough to explain and left. I love him so much but he doesn't seem to care
2007-03-09 08:46:46 · 3 answers · asked by Sue H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what a jackas* !!!!! Go and get a lawyer or if you cannot afford it, just go and file for custody of your kids. Then, go for child support and rake it in.
2007-03-09 08:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men stay out foer one reason only....i will let you guess what that is...This man is so weak minded and is a coward for leaving you and the kids because of his own selfish reasons ..You say you love him then ask yourself this what does love mean to you ??? I hate to hear about men leaving the wives and kids for God knows what...That is sooo cowardly and yhis is what is wrong with society today not enough men stay and take full responnsibility..Good luck
2007-03-09 19:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by truthseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it so bluntly, but it sounds as if he has found someone else...my brother in law just went through the same thing with his (ex) wife...he cared for her and there seemed to be no issues except small ones, and she just out of the blue asked for a divorce.
do the best thing for you and your kids and move on. there are more fish in the sea. i know that it will hurt for a while, but keep your chin up and keep yourself busy...
gl sweetie
2007-03-09 16:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by mkshny_4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋