2007-03-09 08:43:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, the best thing do to is to ask him about it. Is it fair to you to be with someone who is lying to you? Do you deserve that, or do you deserve something better?
You need to sit him down and talk to him, tell him how you feel. If what he is doing, is something that you cant stand, then tell him. And stick to your guns. If what he is doing, is something that you don't want any part of then, tell him that too. If he wants to stop or change, then help him. If he says he wants to but doesn't do anything about it, then you got your answer. Leave him and move on, you deserve something or someone better.
2007-03-09 08:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your husband is a gangster...you sound like that lady on the Sopranos. Just ask the man. If you are truly married to him talk to him and tell him that you are worried about whatever he is doing....Or, you think he will cut you up into little pieces and throw you into the river???
2007-03-09 08:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok Brian all gay jokes aside. I think that if you really want to know then you could try to get a detective or if money is a problem then you could follow him one day or have someone else do it. Just be sure that you really want to know the answers before you go that way cause it could have reprocussions on you
2007-03-09 08:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by wlfbelcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took my husbands bank card and printed off the statment so that I could see where he was spending his money. It helped to open my eyes to what was going on.... (make sure you are sneeky though)
I would also like to appologise for the rude people that answered your question, in this day and age it is sad that people are still so ignorant!
2007-03-09 08:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jodi Lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but if you are a dude, you dont have a husband. And you never will! Thank goodness that gay people arent allowed to get married.
2007-03-09 09:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private investigator to follow him sounds crazy but i believe thats the only way you can find out and not get in trouble with the law by doing something else
2007-03-09 08:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire Walker Texas Ranger to crack the case...
2007-03-09 08:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him point blank. If he denies, hire someone to track him down.
2007-03-09 08:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by prettybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you can't trust him after you ask him then you do have issues nothing that can't be worked out!
relationships can be hard work!
but with out Trust Communication and passion.. it can be sour really quick!
if you don't beleive him ask yourself why your with him!
if you can't communicate to him who can you ommunicate with
ifyou don't have passion for him then who are you doing?
2007-03-09 08:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private detective
2007-03-09 08:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋