i absolutly love to women and i would love to stay with a woman all my life.
bit i also love men. everytime i see a man i like,
it is as if i have never had any fealings for a woman.
which way should i turn
i need help
2007-03-09 08:36:18 · 17 answers · asked by wizard_man130 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't look for a partner according to gender. Just be open to people. That will take the choosing between people easier.
You can also find some excitement in the middle. I have myself a beautiful husband with feminine features.
2007-03-09 09:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to "turn", it's simply a matter of preference. You may be confused right now, so give yourself some time without being with anybody. There is nothing wrong with being bisexual, many people are. With regards to the commentary about feelings for men it's as if you don't love women, you may just be gay and be repressed; or be predominantly same-sex oriented (although you are bisexual). Be honest with yourself, that's what's most important.
2007-03-10 10:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dusk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on now, don't get all flustered. You and me, were the same. I would say that my approach to the problem wasn't what I would call . . . typical. What I had to do was lean on God (Oh I know, not an acceptable thing to say here at times) and stop making myself lead with sex. Many would agree that I have a double whammy: I am a Scorpio too.
With all that against me, I manage to trust God first, and let my sexual desires to go by the wayside as much as possible. I KNOW that the right woman is righter for me, but sometimes I cannot help in being attracted to a guy-- usually straight guys-- it figures!
So I declared myself OFF the PLAYING FIELD! I am NO longer on the market!
I would rather die single than to feed the sexual monster in me. I have to tell myself, "NO!"
If God wants me to have a relationship, He gets to make it happen.
2007-03-09 17:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hate being bi!! Being bi is great--I, for one, love it! Anyway, if you're bi, you usually have a slight (or greater) preference for one sex over the other. I prefer women. That's just me. However, once you find someone that stops you dead in your tracks, someone that makes you do a double take and who you find yourself thinking about constantly, then go for them. Note their gender, and then continue noting the genders of all those who you are deeply attracted to--whether you date them or not. This has happened to me a few times, but solely with women.
Try it yourself and see what comes of it.
Best of luck!
2007-03-09 17:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely hard to figure out your sexuality. There is no easy answer to the question. For me, it took doing a lot of reading and research. Wikipedia actually has a lot of information on there with some helpful links.
2007-03-09 16:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by irishjayhawk25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. But at the end of the day which could you live without men or women?
2007-03-09 16:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to turn one way or the other? Find the person you truly love, and stay with them. It doesn't matter what gender they are.
2007-03-09 16:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kharm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just date who ever you like regardless of gender. maybe you find a great girl and fall in love- maybe she's not so great, you find a guy and like him.
maybe you date many people of both genders.
you don't have to choose.
you're lucky, you are not bound by gender
2007-03-09 16:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must decide for yourself. It sounds like you are more attracted to guys so I would actually recommend that you find one and get together!
2007-03-09 16:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally think u should turn to guys.....i myself am gay and it seems as if men are your.... not fetish......but "cup of tea" i mean theres a difference between liking another man verses LOVING another man and forgeting about a women, so my friend here is my advice.........go for men!!!!!!
2007-03-09 16:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by loverboi09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋