I have been married to my husband for 4 years and together for 5. Til this day I still want to be with him every minute of the day. I hate when he goes out with his friends and I can't stand it when he is even watching something on tv that I am not interested in and he is not paying attention to me. We have two kids together so I have plenty to keep me busy, but If he is laying down I would just rather be right by him. Now here comes the tricky part...on the weekend I would rather go out with my friends or to a party and not be with him. What is wrong with me?
2007-03-09 08:35:28 · 15 answers · asked by wifey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It does sound a bit strange..
How does he feel about it ?
If it is not causing a problem then it is not a problem.
2007-03-09 08:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! This sounds exactly like me. I am the same way, I can't stand to be away from my husband, even if he goes to the grocery store for milk I hate it, however when there is something I want to do it's fine if I am away even all day as long as I'm enjoying whatever it is I'm doing. We have been married for almost eight years and have been together for ten and it has always been this way. I'm sorry I could not answer your question, but you are not alone girlfriend. I will be looking forward to the answers so I can see whats wrong with me too. Good luck!!
2007-03-09 17:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hate when he goes out with his friends do you not consider he may not like you going out with yours you have two kids you guys should be spending time and giving more time to the raising your children then going out partying. You wanted a family well you give up single style life when you marry and have kids. Stop being so needy it is probably driving him nuts but he hasn't the nerve to tell you give him space your his wife not when of the kids be close when intimate but there is no need to be clingy and controlling.
2007-03-09 17:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like the husband is asking the question - lol..... also sounds like she is insecure. She wants to be sure she is your whole world and you don't have a life but then wants one of her own. That kind of smothering would drive me up the freakin' wall. And why is she all over you when you are home but then taking off on the weekends? You have to talk to her about this.
2007-03-09 17:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep up this behavior and you'll be getting divorce papers in the mail. You had better quit being selfish and give him a little room during the week or you'll be spending more time with your friends than you bargained for.
2007-03-09 16:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecure, immature, fears of abandonment, separation anxiety, but when theres something else to do u want to go do that. maybe u just need people around u all of the time to make u feel better about yourself. maybe u can't stand being alone anytime.
2007-03-09 16:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think there's something wrong with you? Maybe you're just bored during the week - maybe you need to do something different during the week. hope that helps. the weekends here!!
2007-03-09 17:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your just controlling.
2007-03-09 16:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard to answer. There has to be a reason you feel that way, but only you can answer that I think.
2007-03-09 16:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want his attention when it's convenient for you, but when you have a better offer, you go for it.
2007-03-09 16:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋