I know a gal for past 16 months, but surprisingly never met her. We always communicate through sms, mails and phone calls. She used to sent me lots of flirting msgs and mails. Once, I also replied in the same pattern, and she reverted saying that she can only be friend. She has lots of male friends but when I talk about any of my female friends, she sounds very low and jealous. I don't want to hurt her but at the same time want to move out of this situation. Plz hlp.
2007-03-09 08:31:35 · 11 answers · asked by Indianfriend82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Everybody! Thnx 4 initial responses. I think she is very cleaver. Once I tried to talk to her indirectly. On one hand she said she will marry according to her parents wish, on the other hand she said she never want to lose my friendship. I am very confused. However, I don't want to spoil my time for somebody with whom I have no future (if she is serious about the marriage according to her parents stuff)..
2007-03-09 08:52:30 · update #1
Hi, I would say ask her why she sent you the flirty texts first? then why she wasnt interested when you replyed? Let her know that you dont like her getting jealous as your not allowed to get jealous. Also let her know it was her decision to be just friends and you have as much right to have other female friends as she does male. See if talking her makes a difference and if shes still the same then tell her you cant be in that situation anymore. Hope all works out for the best!!!!!
2007-03-09 08:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could stop writing to her but that wouldn't be very nice especially since you have been communicating for the last 16 months.. why don't you just be upfront and honest. Its easier to be honest with someone your not looking at face to face. If she is your friend she should understand your feelings. Don't keep putting it off. Sounds like it is bothering you.. You will feel better once you get the truth out there
2007-03-09 08:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I have a very similar situation. Look just start avoiding her calls, sometimes. And that's a girl for you: she can talk about her male friends but you can't talk about another female. And I really don't think she wants a relationship with you she's just messing with your head.
2007-03-17 07:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by ADVICEGURL101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me i want to ask you, "Are you really serious? I mean about a relation with her." Because if you are serious with a relationship with her, sorry but i think she doesn't want it. i really so think that she just loves you as only a friend and she doesn't think of anything farther than that. if you really do like her don't force it, but don't take too much time on it either.
2007-03-16 14:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Hoa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you can't be bothered with this girl. just tell her the truth. she sounds like a nice girl and she might take the wrong idea and think she has a chance with you. once you tell her and if she understands you, she also would tell you to move on. xxx xxx xxx
2007-03-17 06:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the looks of things .. shes messin u about.. its like she wants u 2 say ... wiat i love u!! if u get my point.. its proberly atttenion but either wya u need 2 tell her what u think
good luck
2007-03-09 09:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by BayBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her whatyou just said and let her know and if this don't work out very well then I need to move on and you need to moved on... simple said.. no plm.. yes feelings hurt but moved on... that how i did my and it works.
2007-03-09 08:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop communicating with her...
thats her prob!
Act jealous when she talks about her guy friends!\
I really dont know.
Sorry!!
:-)
2007-03-09 08:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you just told us. if you 2 can't move on from there, tell her goodbye.
2007-03-09 08:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋