This guy used me on our very first date.The next morning,he drove me to the train station and has never called nor visited my profile(dating page)
I feel hurt and stupid to be slip-off that night.But then i want him to call me,i liked him
2007-03-09 08:12:03 · 17 answers · asked by livelegolas 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
well first of all you should ask this question in singals and dating and not in books and authors But besides that the guy is an *** sory but from what you said its true just go for another guy.
2007-03-09 08:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont call. Chalk it up to a good lesson and get on with your life. I just hope that he was at least thoughtful enough to use a condom. Even if he did, it would be a good time to visit a gyno or a clinic for an exam. Condoms fail and dont always prevent things like HPV which can turn to uterine cancer. Guys who sleep around like that are very often carriers of things like HPV. Think of yourself as older and wiser, hon. These things happen to a lot of people. Internet dating very rarely works out. Move on to happy things. Find someone who truly cares about you and don't allow yourself to be used so easily the next time. Get to know the guy before you give yourself to him. Hugs and feel better. C.
2007-03-09 08:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Persiphone_Hellecat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, but he is probably not going to call back. Most men on dating sites are dirt bags! Try just meeting people through friends you already have and that way you know they will not "use you" because they are friends of your friends and they would not (at least I hope they wouldn't) intoduce you to a loser. Form a friendship with someone and get to know them first in person, not through a dating site.
2007-03-09 08:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Whit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it has been over 24 hours, he will not call. Sometimes it's hard to understand life, but you have to learn from it. This would have been the start of an unstable relationship...count it as a good thing. Remember the signs for your next encounter.
2007-03-09 08:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by M A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We'll what did you expect if you slept with him on the first date? I am no prude, as I have done it myself when I was in the dating scene, but you gotta know that when you sleep with a guy on the first date that sends a pretty clear message!
2007-03-09 08:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say take the bull by the horns and call him. I am sure you have his number. Leave a message. If he calls back then talk to him and try to make a second date. If he doesn't call back he is worth your time. Find a guy who deserves you!
2007-03-09 08:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Rebekah B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry for you but things like that happen alot. Just be wiser in your choices next time. You say he used you, but it was your choice to be used.
Also, this question doesn't belong in the Arts & Humanities category.
2007-03-09 09:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by Donna J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sucks! I am sorry to hear that. He isn't worth waiting for a phonecall from. Hold your head up high and learn from this, move on, and if he does call, tell him where to go
2007-03-09 08:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by mskissis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget guys. who needs um. We're fine on our own ladies. If you still love him you need to take some time to get over him by staying away from him.
2007-03-09 08:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sadie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone who hurt you and mistreated you? Are you punishing yourself for some reason? Do you dislike yourself?
Forget him, for Pete's sake.
2007-03-09 09:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by §Sally§ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋