i do not have any desire for sex is it normal.and my husband doesn't show any desire either what can i do?is something wrong with me.?he can not satisfy me any more and he reach his orgasm so fast like 1 min or 2 at last what should i do?
2007-03-09 08:03:35 · 5 answers · asked by sue 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You have got to spice it up! Go to a porn shop--- get some porn videos--get some toys-- dress up in a little teddie (maybe when you aren't prego) I am suprised that you dont have any sex drive.
If he finishes--- tell him to leave the room while you please yourself. Then maybe he will pay a little more attention to YOUR needs--not just his.
2007-03-09 08:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by maybe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I have been there and it is NORMAL. Stuff Psychologically happens when you get pregnant that leaves you with no desire. I do not know if the other people that responded to your question have ever been in your situation and had a child but rest assured, it is normal for you to have no desire. It is also normal to be completely turned on your whole pregnancy. It varies from woman to woman. As far as the husband... he needs to be more understanding. Look at it this way... your stomach is HUGE. There are two of YOU now. Having sex so far along in the pregnancy can be uncomfortable, position making can be trying and you are more tired now. Find interesting ways to have Sex. Candle light dinner, romantic movie. It is like a puzzle and the best thing is trying to put the pieces together.
2007-03-09 18:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey! you need to pleasure yourself or maybe pleasure yourself in front of your husband and maybe he'll get turn on by watching you. If that doesn't work just pleasure yourself only.
2007-03-09 17:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to go on maury and find ur baby daddy like everyone else does.
2007-03-09 16:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont wanna suck it!
2007-03-09 17:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tara m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋