To sum it up...We talked by phone for a month, met thru a friend. He has no car nor do I, he has no internet access, we didnt know how each other looked like. It seemed like we were falling in blind love. We got along great talked alot. He surprised me with a surprise visit, I just got out of work not looking so hot(My friends say its all in my head) He looked great we only had a 30 minutes to hang out, cuz he was using his sisters car, supposely he was waiting in a parking lot for his sister. (we live 30 miles away) OK thats the scenario now the problem, after we met, slowly he just faded away, didnt call that often, he didnt pick up the calls. So I was like f*ck him, didnt bother no more, he would call maybe once in while what I was doing. He was going thru a hard time, like probation, money problems, not earning enough, and his phone got cut off so thats the last I heard of him. 3 weeks later I get a surprise voicemail that he misses me, what Im I doing & he'll call me. Mindgames?
2007-03-09 07:52:46 · 1 answers · asked by zuegma1977 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Forget it!
If it takes that much work right off the bat that means it will only get tougher.
Plus it sounds like he is not very responsible or capable and do you really want a looser for a boyfriend.
Move on and find someone more together and more capable believe me it isn't worth it.
2007-03-09 13:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋