she is a player...really...and she did it with those 2 guys on the SAME DAY!!!i m mad as hell, but should i support her too?
2007-03-09 07:44:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you're her friend, you'll support her.
But yeah, read her the riot act first.
Poor child.
2007-03-09 07:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Char 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is ok to not agree with everything that your friend does..but to be mad about it is totally different. Right now is the time that she is gonna need your support the most.
My best friend is kinda the same way...she had a baby two years ago and there is a possibility of two fathers. She has still yet to find out which one it is which I find to be incredibly selfish on her part(not only for the guys but for her son) I don't agree with it but I support her in any decision she makes as it is not MY decision.
2007-03-09 07:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by mom2ace 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shes in a time when she needs you the most. Its not your responsibility to keep up with her. Shes an adult and sometimes we make mistakes. Stay by her side. Shes going to get very emotional. Good Luck. Oh yeah dont be mad at her. And if you are try not to show it. show her support
2007-03-09 08:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by meme0126 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's your friend. You should support her and understand that she's probably just as upset and concerned about this as you are, even if she doesn't show it. You're also entitled to your opinion, but right now she needs your support more. You should wait until she figures out what she wants to do about the situation before you explain to her how you feel about it.
2007-03-09 07:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by krazyk 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well personally, I voice what I think whether they want to hear it or not, in most cases, however your friend is going to need your support on this matter. I know how you feel. Just do what you think would be right. Good luck!!!
2007-03-09 08:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Me_Myself_&_I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be mad at her. but, at the same time she is really going to need your support. because sometimes being pregnant can be a really stressful thing,
2007-03-09 07:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you mad? Obviously you knew that she was capable of this and you chose to be her friend. Now when things get sticky you choose to have a moral standing on this. I am not trying to be rude at all, but you need to get over it and just support her if she is going to remain your friend. Good luck to her though and I hope she has learned her lesson. I am not judging her btw since no one is perfect.
2007-03-09 07:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
why are you mad? the whole situation has absolutely nothing to do with you! yes, you should support her. she's not the only person in the world to have sex with 2 guys on the same day. it doesn't even make her a bad person. it's just a bad decision.
2007-03-09 07:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Why are you mad? It's her life. She may have made a bad choice, but it is still her choice to make. You're her friend. It's your job to be supportive. If you really feel that upset towards her choices maybe you should look into finding a new friend.
2007-03-09 07:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Wiccan~Momma 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can be disappointed but she probably needs a friend now more than ever. You don't have to agree with the choices you friend makes but if she is a true friend then I would be there for her as support.
2007-03-09 07:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ambre B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think u should just support her no matter what. yeah it sucks that she is a player but she probably needs a friend right now not someone to be mad at her.
2007-03-09 07:49:05 · answer #11 · answered by moonlightkitten 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋