she is nasty to me, evan tho i keep out of it wen she txts my boyfriend i never get involved im just sick of her blackmailing him it hurts me to watch . we have decided to go to get advice and get help. if everyone new what she was like you would understand. my boyfriend brought his son up on his own for six years while she did nothing she was lazy very lazy. my boyfriends family told me what she was like. she never let him have a life, she made him depressed so he decided he had to leave he was suicidel . now hes with me hes very happy he just wants to see his son she wont have it. yeah he might of left her and not make contact for a while. but she made him near killing himself, i wanna help him . any one out there in a similar position. or can give me sum friendly advice, theres no point being harse you dont know how hard it is thanx
2007-03-09 07:35:44 · 3 answers · asked by sahara07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him to go to family law courts to get access to his son. see a family law solicitor first they will advice you
2007-03-09 07:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by SANDRA U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I cant imagine anyone being nasty or rude to you about your situation so if you do get any negative comments lend it all to ignorance and forget it. As far as what you are going through (and I have seen this in the past but not been in the situation my self) this is a very unfortunate place to be in right now. It sounds like you need to get yourself a good lawyer. Explain the situation to him/her and let them help your boyfriend get visitation rights. If he is the kids father then he has every right to be a part of his life. Even if he left he can tell the lawyer why he left and that he is in a better place right now. You may not be able to fight for custody at first just visitation rights, but its a place to start. Worse yet, YOU have nothing to do with this. Since you are not married to this man the child is between him and his ex. You just need to be a shoulder for him to cry on and a backbone for him if he needs one. This is a very hard time for all parties involved right now and it will not resolve itself quickly but make sure that everything is done legaly and soon enough everything will work out for the best. Good luck, I wish you all the best for the sake of the child.
2007-03-09 15:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, this is really his battle, you have really got to stay out of it. Support him yes, but as a single mum whose ex has a new girl, I know only too well how much crap the new girlfriend can cause. I know you absolutly don;t mean to, but you just being there will cause her to act up. He needs to deal with this alone.
2007-03-09 15:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋