A week ago, everything was working well with the girl that I like. She used to chat with me on msn everyday and talk to me at school, and flirt... But suddenly she is avoiding me and ignoring me, she doesn't even respond when I tell her hi on msn! We're both 14! What is happening? I can't understand her. I like her so much!
2007-03-09 07:32:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No she is does not have a bf because she goes out with my group of friends and we're pretty close.
2007-03-09 07:39:24 · update #1
No she is does not have a bf because she goes out with my group of friends and we're pretty close, so I know.
2007-03-09 07:39:31 · update #2
does she already you know you like her, or do you think she doesn't know. if you think she doesn't know but you have told other people it might have just gotten to her. when i found out one of my friends liked me i got really uncomfortable around him then, so i would sorta avoid him. he asked me out a billion times a day which was really awkward too.
2007-03-09 07:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her - write her a note and pass it to her at school. Say, 'How come you never talk to me on msn anymore?' and wait about a week. In a week's time, you will have had your answer. Either she will tell you the answer to your question on msn - keep trying during that week - or she will totally freeze you out and not reply at all to anything.
If she totally freezes you out, just realize that some people deal with things that way - harshly - and you just learned this about her and then forget about it. Don't take it personally. Relax and realize you may never know the real story and that's OK.
2007-03-13 09:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously said/wrote something offending to her. Or she got a b/f and is not allowed to msn you. Ask her...leave her an offline msn! I'd never do that unless the person offended me in some way. Good luck
2007-03-09 15:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someone told her something about you behind your back. Sounds like another girl might like you and has said some untruths about you to her to get you for herself. At 14, girls listen to what their friends think about boys. Try talking to her face to face and ask her if she is angry with you or did you do something to upset her. Good Luck. Remember, there are more girls out there and years from now you will laugh about this!
2007-03-09 15:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by gigglings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be interested any more. She may have found another guy she likes. Back off of her for a while, if not you will start to look desperate. Girls do not like that. Girls like it when you almost ignore them. IT makes it a challange and they love that. Just act like you dont care, dont call her, dont write her, NOTHING. I promise you....after a while she will be contacting you back
2007-03-09 15:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be going through something she can't or don't want to talk about , send her a card (e-card) let her know you are thinking and worried about her ,you are there if and when she need someone to talk to,that what a good friend would do
2007-03-09 15:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi mate they mate be a problem with something and she cant tell you about just yet, give her time and let her come to you and when she does let her talk and you listen to her and just be there if there is a problem
good luck mate
2007-03-09 15:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋