I don't know what to do. My gf and I are about to get married in 6 months .what do i do WHAT TO I DO. She hasent slept with anyone but me for the past 2 months. what do we do. what do we BOLDLY do.
2007-03-09 06:36:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I totally read this wrong. I thought you boned your girlfriend while she was passed out. You served her drunk friend. Dude, you are up sh1ts creek!
It's one think to tell your girlfriend "if you go to sleep and I have a stiffy, expect to wake-up being drilled". If she's cool with that and finds it a turn on, then hip, hip hooray.
It's reading like you screwed an apparently drunk incapacitated girl / woman! Most states in the U.S consider that rape or date rape! Should you fess up or keep quiet? You may have ruined her life. Think about that!
2007-03-09 07:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully this is an example of some of your worst decision making, not your best.
First if this is the sort of thing you do while drunk, stop drinking.
Second, you need to do some apologizing for abusing your girlfriend this way.
Third as you were going to get married in six months and if she hasn't changed her mind about you, go ahead and consider getting married now.
Get some premarital counseling for both of you to nip in the bud any possible resentments which could develop because of your behavior.
And the last thing I can think of is learn to love the sound of a baby's coo. Just let your heart be filled with love for the little being carried by your gf.
Whoa, wait a minute... I just reread your question, is it your gf or her friend that is pregnant.
Sad little man if it's her friend. Better tell your gf and see if she wants to commit to helping you pay for your mistake.
2007-03-09 06:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by thankyou "iana" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that the decision rests mostly with your gf's friend. Tell your gf the truth, when she breaks up with you accept that you deserve it. Do your best (from the rest of the circumstances I realize it probably won't be that great) to support the pregnant girl any way you can. And get counselling. Anybody that rapes people obviously has some serious issues. And don't try to excuse yourself by saying that you were drunk. I've been drunk. It might impair your judgement a bit but I think your judgement probably wasn't that great to begin with.
2007-03-09 06:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, having sex with an unconscious drunk woman is First Degree Rape - so be glad she was nice enough not to press charges.
Second of all, you had your fun - now it's time to MAN UP!!!
That is, be man enough to admit that it's your kid and as soon as the kid is born begin paying child support (and don't wait for the court order, do it voluntarily) and try to be involved in the child's life (after all, it's your son or daughter!!!)
And admit to your girlfriend that you got horny and perverted and raped one of her friends while she was passed out.
She'll probably think that's pretty disgusting (and she'll be right - cause rape is pretty nasty, as a matter of fact).
She might dump you, or she might forgive you, but you've got to man up and take that chance!!!
That would be the HONORABLE thing to do.
Oh and BTW - stop raping drunk unconscious women - it's not just a bad idea, it's against the law!!!
The next girl might be woman enough to press charges - and you'd be sitting in a 10 by 4 cell with no internet service, hoping that your cellmate doesn't try and do to you what you did to that girl!!!
2007-03-09 06:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well women generally get pregnant when they have sex with a guy.If she wanted to really be a snot, she could get you for rape.This should teach you to leave alcohol alone,and by the way it wasnt the alcohol that got her pregnant, it was you.You had enough agility to keep your balance while doing her.You couldnt have been to drunk.You say your getting married in 6 months what do you do.?Get married now.Be a man and support your wife and child like a man.Go get 'em DADDY!
2007-03-09 06:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares. lady friends who lend there autos so there buddy can cheat . is an illustration she thinks dishonest is effective ..why else lend your vehicle so some you'll cheat.. there for in some unspecified time sooner or later if she has no longer already cheated on you she will manage to.. Time to ditch her before she truly breaks your heart .. had a ex do an identical issue .. i concept her and then i stuck her with Dick in her vagina faster or later and it became no longer mine .. kinda confusing to have self belief her then... you recognize .. I open you ideas and in no way enable your love cloud issue ..you'll see the reality..only imagine..and also you are able to see the signs and indications ....you've been lacking . women individuals could properly be devious and sneaky...Too.
2016-12-05 11:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I can't believe you raped your girlfriend that you say you love and are going to marry.
Second, what do you mean "what do I do?". You got her pregnant now you raise your child. If you're going to marry her anyway, what's the big deal?
All I know is that you better feel lucky she didn't press charges and that you have the rest of your life to make it up to her-if you ever can.
2007-03-09 06:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by mylilboog1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy you and your pickle have gotten yourself into a pickle!! Well there is only one thing to do here and that is to come clean, it will surface one day or another but if you have a hair's bit of love for that girl your gonna marry you need to let her know what you've done. You might just be one lucky SOB and she might be willing to work thru it with you, but you owe her respect now cuz God knows you sure didn't give it to her that night!
2007-03-09 06:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by WOW U all make me feel normal! 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
so pretty much you rapped your gf friend.....she wasnt awake to give consent thats wrong....not only that but you obviously dont love your gf or else you wouldnt have done that.....dont blame it on being drunk thats your own fault now you have to pay the price of your actions. Your screwed man!
2007-03-09 06:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to buck up and be a daddy to that baby. You made the choice to have sex before you were ready for fatherhood, so now you have to make the choice to father this child and give it what it needs. You also have to support and help her thru this. Its gonna be hell on her!
2007-03-09 06:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋