Recap: I've engaged in dry sex with little or no fluid with clothes on during the second day of my period this month. I have been having cramps for 8 days now and think i'm showing more and more symptoms. Ive read on darkening around the nipples and all sorts. I saw 2 doctors (1 of which I saw 3 times, telling me she doesn't think so and that's it's just guilt) , and a clinician twice who found me kind of irritating saying I couln't have! My concern is, why am I having these symptoms and I really don't wanna get pregnant yet. I mean I cannot fuly penetrate if there's clothes on... Please, any suggestions or contributions from experienced?
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could ulcer have any part of these symptoms?
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I'm gonna get my blood results today at 4. How accurate would it be. I'm still getting headaches and craaaaaaamps.!!!
2007-03-09 06:10:17 · 25 answers · asked by confused 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I took home tests. All negative. I'm scared it might be too soon so. I thought I felt some pulse at my stomach!
2007-03-09 06:20:40 · update #1
I agree with your doctor.
Some women do experience pregnancy symptoms because they are worried about being pregnant.
Try relaxing.
2007-03-09 06:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
None of those are early signs of pregnancy, except maybe the headaches. Areola darkening doesn't generally come about until closer to the END of your pregnancy. The "ulcer" you speak of is probably more related to stress than anything else. It's a myth that people get ulcers due to stress (they are viral), but you certainly can give yourself a nasty belly ache (and headache) from worrying too much. Calm down, trust your doctor, and await your test! I'm certain that you'll be pleased to discover you are, in fact, not pregnant. If, however, "dry humping" leaves you with this much or an emotional burden, why not avoid the activity for a while, and settle for less intimate behavior? It certainly isn't worth all this stress you've caused yourself! Good luck.
2007-03-09 14:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are certain days of the month, after your period, when you are fertile, & pregnancy can occur. I never heard of anyone getting pregnant during their period. You are getting yourself all upset because of your fear of possibly being pregnant. You sound very young & I don't mean to lecture you but you two need to use condoms every time if you are going to engage in sex. I have had an ulcer before & the symptoms you are having are not what I experienced. You're getting yourself all worked up, & probably for nothing, except that you may feel guilty & scared. Try to relax!!!!
2007-03-17 12:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.
I would bet a thousands bucks that you aren't pregnant. It is extremely rare, if not impossible to become pregnant during your period. Sometimes I swear that i must be pregnant only to find out that I am not. Plus, the pulse in your stomach is your own heart beat. A doctor cant even hear a heart beat from an unborn baby with a stethoscope until a woman is about 4 months pregnant.
I understand your concern, but hang in there. You will find out soon enough.
2007-03-17 12:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his penis went into your vagina, then that is sexual intercourse, and it doesn't matter if you are wearing other clothes or not. It also does not matter if he ejaculates into you or not, because his pre-ejaculatory fluid contains sperm that can also get you pregnant.
I don't know what "dry" sex means, but it sounds kinda painful.
If it means he put his penis inside you at any time, no matter how far in, it is possible to get pregnant from this.
Take a home pregnancy test, to determine if you are pregnant or not. First Response is very accurate.Blood tests at the doctor's office are nearly foolproof at determining pregnancy.
I fully agree with the other commenter who suggested that you get some counseling, because you sound very anxious and worried and possibly upset about the sexual activities you are having. Until you work out your feelings on all this, its best to avoid situations that lead to seven doctor visits and all this stress.
Finally, please get on birth control right away because it sounds like you really need to do more to prevent unwanted pregnancy. Contact Planned Parenthood to get some birth control. You might beneifit from sex ed, too, so you are more clear about what makes babies.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
Good luck!
2007-03-09 14:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by EmLa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well stress will also prolong you from getting your period. And too much stress will cause ulcers. You will not feel the baby move for a very very long time, so the movement is something else.
Next time you see the doctor, tell him or her you think you may have Ulcers so they will take you more seriously.
But wait until you get your blood results back, which might also diagnose your medical problem as something else.
Stop worrying!!!!!
2007-03-09 14:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax--- If that is all you did, your chances of being pregnant are virtually nil---
Sometimes our minds can cause us a huge amount of trouble---including weird physical symptoms and even false pregnancies.
You need to get some counseling--- Clearly you are not comfortable with the sexual activity you are having, and perhaps with other areas of your life as well. Ulcers are not a good indication of a happy peaceful life as well. You need to change some things in your life. Seek help from a trustworthy counselor.
2007-03-09 14:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Rani 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not pregnant. Sometimes if you over think things like this you will develop some physical symptoms. I'm not surprised you have an ulcer, you sound like a worrier!
2007-03-16 16:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your having whats called a false pregnancy. because you are so worried about it your developing symptoms i had a similar experience at 16. but do a pregnancy test in a couple of weeks just to be safe. i really doubt that your pregnant. good luck let us all know
2007-03-15 20:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ronni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your nuts and freaking yourself out. It is impossible to get pregnant having "dry sex". The only way to get pregnant is if his penis went inside of you.
Maybe this will teach you not to be fooling around with boys since you obviously don't know how women get pregnant. You're too young. You didn't even have real sex and look how your freaking out.
2007-03-15 16:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by lilmech44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are NOT pregnant! get over the fact of thinking you are! i AM a doctor and if you came into my office i would tell you the same thing (that you couldn't possibly be) i would also strongly recommend that you seek counseling because for some reason you've got it in your head that you are pregnant and thats why you are getting these symptoms because if you believe it so strongly you will get symptoms!!!
P.S. the pulse you thought you felt in your stomach is your OWN!
2007-03-13 19:51:47 · answer #11 · answered by moore_256 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋