We have talked for 1yr. and haven't met yet but I think I'm in love ... Is it true or not.
2007-03-09 06:09:28 · 20 answers · asked by Timberlynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes you can.
I know of a couple who never met each other. They wrote letters to each other for 6 months and met and got married.
They've been married for 25 years now. ♥
2007-03-09 06:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you could be heavily infatuated. The tricky part about talking to someone online only, is that you don't know what they're really like, until you meet them and interact in person. You don;t see her/his bad habits, what his/her turn offs are, so you're really only basing your feelings from unrealistic expectations and experiences without seeing the person face to face.
Don't get me wrong, maybe the person you're talking to has a great personality, and if you're lucky enough, they are also honest with you. But just like you can get something great, maybe you don't.
Maybe before spilling the beans about your s\feelings (hoping it's not too late) encourage a person to person meeting to take place soon. When you meet this person, prepare yourself by reading up on body language, and take a close look at signs of lying. There are many articles on line that detectives, FBI personnel use when interrogating, like looking away/up (as if to look for an answer) after a question, scratching faces, just to name a few.
Don't become a total detective, just keep an eye for body language overall, since you really don't know this person or how he acts face to face. Also don't get mislead by someone who is shy or nervous. Best of luck to you, things don't have to be always bad.
2007-03-09 06:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I think you can fall in love with some one on line. I did and we have a son and are living together now. But the only one who knows for sure if what your feeling is real is you. I mean your asking can you fall in love with some one you have never met well you are the answer to your own question. Do you truly love this person or not? Answer the question and in return you will have the answer you seek. Good luck!
2007-03-09 06:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
short answer: yes you can fall in love with an online personality because its soemone who makes time for you and you can discuss anything.
long answer: You are in love with an idealized image a person and as a result may be lmagnifying the good points. the hard part is the emotionas and feelings are REAL but the situation is not. On the internet, nothing is real until you meet and you see the other person's body language.
If possible...see about meeting halfway if the distance is great....but meet in public.
Good luck! I fell in love with an online relationship and got burned so I hope it wworks better fro you :)
2007-03-09 07:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by shak2043 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can honey, but you need to meet that person at some point. I talked to my boyfriend, now husband for 3 months online without knowing what he looked like and was in love with him long before we met. That was 8 years ago and we have been married for 7 years.
So it can happen, but be careful and Goodluck.
2007-03-09 06:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by johanne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you can... it's a big risk because you don't know if you've been lied to, but I think emotions are something you can't really control. If you feel like you've connected with that person through conversation like never before, it is possible that you've fallen for that person. Maybe not so much for that person because you don't know him/her physically, but mostly with the IDEA of that person. So make sure you are not being lied to and try and get to know the person as much as you can before you are head over heels... Hope this helps :)
2007-03-09 06:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by alekoukla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to answer that. I think that it could happen but it isn't always what you think. I have met tons of friends through the internet that seem ok. But you never really know for sure till your face to face. It could happen. But it isn't always the smart thing to do.
2007-03-09 06:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by lilangel02babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you can fall in love with someone's personality online, or what they've chosen to disclose to you, but you I don't believe that you can be truly in love with someone until you meet them and get to know them in person as well.
2007-03-09 06:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may fall in love, but that could change once you meet them in person. People act differently in person then when they are online. If you chose to meet them in person make sure your with someone.
2007-03-09 06:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by [[ MiiSZZ SANTANA ]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been honest in your conversations then absolutely yes but how do you know if he's been honest? You should fall for someone because of who they are and not what they look like so if you trust that you've both been honest then you could be.
2007-03-09 06:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by nm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋