what should u do if your husband lied 2 you about visiting his x?

Question

He said that she wanted 2 see him 2 tell him that she pregnant and getting married to her present boyfriend. They were together for 7 years.

Answer 1

Sounds fishy!

Answer 2

Trust is number one in a relationship. He could have lied for a various number of reasons. He could have lied to protect your feelings, or he could have lied because he really did something with her. Either way he should not lie to you. Talk to him and see how he reacts. Most people with a guilty conscience get mad. No matter what his reason is you need tell him there is no reason to lie. If he is cheating he is not a very smart man. It is the oldest reason in the book to kill. Every person deserves the best. Go with your gut instinct. It is usually right.

Answer 3

there is know reason for a husband to lie to his wife. but for some reason they seem to always do. and then to lie over an ex, but why lie over an ex if the ex is getting married to someone else and is pregnant by someone else. see it doesn't make sense to me. and he is also married. why should it matter how long they were together? i was with my ex for 6 years we had a kid together i got married then told him i got married in front of my husband. why hide things? when there is nothing to hide. but my husband did the same thing with his ex. for what reason? still don't know - afraid she'll take the kid away. cop out . i don't know to this day it still pisses me off. like i said why hide things when there is nothing to hide. good luck

Answer 4

Forgive him 4 this time.seven yrs is a pretty long time,may b there r not n love but n honest friendship.So next time when she asked ur hubby to c her,u too join with him.if u want make her a common friend but if ur husband lies u n go 2 c her alone then think twice to b with him.

Answer 5

I would tell him that he should have told you because it makes you feel bad that he lied to you. If she really just wanted to let him know how she was then why not tell him on the phone or meet somewhere public and he should have told you. I would be upset more about the lieing then anything else.

Answer 6

if he lied about it there is more to it. if they don't have children together and did not remain friends there is no reason he should even care if she is pregnant and getting married. if they have children together that live with her she could have told him on the phone since the childrens life will be affected as well

Answer 7

Say. That's nice. By the way, I just got an email from an old boyfriend. It is all a game, honey. I wish that I had learned that earlier.

Drop it.

Answer 8

Unless they had children together, there is no real reason
for them to see eachother at all. They are over and some
people can be friends, but if your not included that it should
not exist. Good luck. Also lies are not acceptable.

Answer 9

Being a concerned woman, i would of asked is she's ok with the baby and all and that's nice if there getting married?
second of all i would of asked him, if he had a good time and when would i go visit mine?:-)

Answer 10

It all depends on how strong your commitment to each other is. if for some reason you told him not to go because your jealous, then honestly reevaluate your relationship. you should not be living with these doubts, find someone who you can fully trust. you deserve that, and if not then stay by your self until you do. life is too short to be playing these headgames!

Answer 11

You should see a x of yours have sex with him and tell your husband that you and x only talked i'm sure he will believe you after all he expects you to believe his lie.