if we were friends and i am not talking about a relationship but just friends and you found out i was gay how would you react to me
2007-03-09 06:04:24 · 41 answers · asked by carolyn g 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know you said for girls only. Sorry but I am a male. And a straight male at that. i just had to throw in my 2 cents worth never the less. I think you must have stumbled upon something drastic just very recently about your preferred lifestyle. I don't know you and I am not sure why you feel the way you do. The only thing which I can suggest for you for the time is this. Wait! Don't go rushing into any serious judgments. You are probably going to need a lot of time and perhaps some thinking before determining who you really are and what you wish to be. It is a time to cross roads. New decisions. Some changes even. But what ever the case may be, remember this. Sometimes to take NO decision can also be a decision.
2007-03-09 08:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only be bothered if you had lied to me at some point in the friendship. What you do behind closed doors is your business and no-one else's. I wouldn't expect you to tell me "don't worry I don't fancy you" or anything like that I would just accept it.
A friend of mine told me about two months into our friendship she was bi it wasn't a major confession I was talking about a gay friend I had been to uni with and how I used to go on nights out with him and she said oh are you bi? to which I said no and she said I am. That was it nothing more my response was whatever floats your boat, as long as she is happy I don't give one who she is happy with. If your friend is a true friend that is all she will wish for you.
2007-03-09 06:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by suzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make no difference to me. I'd probably just start looking for girls to set you up with instead or boys. I'm not gay by the way. When a friend comes out to me (and many have), I am pleased that they trust me to tell me, and are not having to hide part of their life. Then we carry on as normal.
2007-03-09 22:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by KateScot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really happy for you that you had found yourself, first of all. Beyond that, it wouldn't make a difference to me...personally I love gay people, I respect them for being able to be different, and I would consider you a really good friend still. It would probably make late night sleepovers or talks much more interesting also, lol.
2007-03-09 06:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mallory 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what would we talk about? I hate girls and you would keep going on about them!
Seriously, I would be happy as hell, if there's one thing I like its a girl who doesn't like men, they are far more pleasanter than women who do, straight women get bitchy and jealous over men and are just plain embarrassing. As long as you don't try anything..... I'm sure we could be friends(!) I think that is what alot of people worry about. They start thinking the gay friend fancies them! Arrogant bast*rds that we are!
GOOD ON YOU.
2007-03-09 09:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by The Face 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably still try to fix you up with my mates - only I'd stick to the single, gay ones.
Not many of my friends stay single for long!! But they always stay my friends.
Love is where you find it. If you find it with the same sex - that's cool too. So long as they treat you well and make you feel special.
2007-03-09 06:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being "gay" myself, I would be happy that you told me and glad to help you in any way. If you had not told me I would still be pleased that you were my friend. As I have found, in life you cannot have too many friends.
Best wishes to you. Rose P.
2007-03-09 13:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by rose p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say so whos the lucky girl ne ways i would never insult a gay couple or lesbian couple or single people i am very open minded and i am willing to give any one a chance and what kind of friend would i be if i said something horrible is wouldnt be a good one right i would tell you to fight for what you belive in good luck to you and ttyl
2007-03-09 06:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care who my friends shag! It's none of their business who I'm getting down with, it really wouldn't bother me, and I know this because my cousin is gay and I couldn't give a toss. As long as you had a sense of humour, and still gossiped about ya love life I don't care if you wanna bang men, women or both at the same time.
2007-03-09 06:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't matter to me at all! I wouldn't only be friends with heterosexuals i don't think that would even come into it as long as they had a good personality. Anyone who would react negatively doesn't deserve to be your friend.
2007-03-10 08:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋