help, my bezzie mates (jo and shelly) completely ignore me . they go off linking with each other to leave me by myself . they never speak to me and when i started crying in school they laughed and werent interested. if i ditch them i wont have any otha mates. i cant believe how mean they r being to me!!!! what shall i do???
2007-03-09 05:58:43 · 14 answers · asked by N H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Now that is not what i call "mates" make some new friends , it may be best if you drift away from them first !! they are propably holding you back !!!!
having friends is about having fun together and being there for each other (dump them)
2007-03-09 06:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are supposed to be your friends then you would be better off without them. I'll bet that they are the school bitches, the ones that people try to be friends with, rather than being bullied by them. If you drop them the chances are that you will find some real friends. the ones that are keeping their distance from you because of the other two cows that you are at present associated with.
2007-03-09 06:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by alec A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is having same problem at the moment i know it is hard and i feel for you but try your best to get other friends these people are being hurtful who needs friends like this? Talk to other people at your school join some kind of out of school activities it will be hard to do but in the long run you will benefit good luck babes and yes life is kind of hard sometimes chin up :)
2007-03-09 18:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let these little girls have the satisfaction of knowing that their behaviour is upsetting you, girls can be real little madams, but what goes around comes around.
Start mixing with other people and dont bother with the grusome twosome, real friends dont dump on each other like that and make each other feel so bad,your better off without them.
2007-03-09 10:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
these are the things that happena t school I'm afraid. Next week it will be you and Shelley ignoring Jo, or something like that. Just ignore them and they will grow bored, but if you cry or react you are fuelling their little game.
2007-03-09 06:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but brace yourself.They are not into you the way you are into them.You are coming across as very needy.Dump those pompous jerks they don't deserve you anyway.What makes you think you wouldn't have any friends.you have a great personality others want you as a friend.
2007-03-09 06:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself some new best mates. the world is full of people who want to be your friend. ignore them and see how they like it. they're probably jealous and you can't do anything about what they choose to feel. join a club like martial arts and make new friends and build your self-esteem
2007-03-09 06:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's mean I would just try to make new friends. And if it takes awhile at least you can count on yourself. What they do just makes you feel worse. They are not friends.
2007-03-09 06:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you still call them best mate??
Look around and make new friends
2007-03-09 06:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by franca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to discos or somewhere without them. they will be really angry but may be after that they'll go out with you or simply ask them what is the problem why they ignore you
2007-03-09 06:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by Natalie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋