iam having friendship with my prof,but i really care of his like &dislikes.he is age of 50&my age is 22.he got married,but he got very nagging wife .he is not happy with his wife.i feel very relax,comfortable with him.
2007-03-09 05:56:02 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oooo.. you're bad. You entirely too much about his relationship and it's sad because you are going to fall in love with this guy and he don't give a damn about you (meaning he is not going to leave his wife).
Don't do it to yourself girl, you will be getting in a whole mess a problems
and yes age is but a number, but this guy is your professor on top of it. Hope you get a 'A' in his class!
2007-03-09 06:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah yes, age doesnt matter when one is in love and he needs to be "saved" from a nagging wife,seeing he hasnt the guts to leave her by himself.Yeah, go ahead, the ex will be a part of your life until the kids are grown, and one day you will wake up and look over and say"MY GOD!I married grandpa!"Youll be 32 and he will 62 and look it.He may not live to be 65-73 and any kids you have will be prhphans then.Not to mention you are young and full of energy, I bet you like to ride the roller coasters and such, I bet he doesnt.One last thing, ask his wife what he does that makes her nag and what are some of his imperfections.More than likely if you hook up with grandpa(and it's against the law you being his student) you may get used and dumped like many girls in your position, you wont know unless you take the risk tho huh?
2007-03-09 06:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bit rare, although not impossible.it can happen with either sex. But in this particular case, you seem to be shortsighted. How do you know for sure that his wife nags him.Even if it were the case what solace would you offer and what you would end up getting out of this affair? See the reality, and change your love or infatuation into admiration.
If he had been a widower or an ummarired person, then under certain circumstances you would have entertained the notion of marrying him. Your friendship or love for him is bound to cause turbulence.
2007-03-13 05:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nuts. Go for some treatment.
The terms between him and his wife are his personal life. You have nothing to do with it.
Girls at young age to get impressed by some or the other behavioural aspects of a person. Love is far beyond that. Some time later, if you feel comfortable with some other guy, would it be love again?
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-09 12:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody can fall in love with anyone, there is no age bar or caste bar or creed bar. Falling in love and actually getting married and stayin with someperson are 2 different things. ppl who are married can support that. so you might feel comfortable now but once your out of love, which everybody does, then you start to realise that this is not what i really wanted. so i better suggest is find a person whom your are comfortable even when you dont love that person that the realtion that would last. i would find some one 70% similar and 30% differnt than me, statistics says that sucha combination works better in a LTR. nothing much to say here. its your life. you can screw it or you can make best of it. takecare
2007-03-09 09:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by harry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural for someone younger to get attracted to a person whom she holds in high esteem due to his knowledge, personality, economic independence, etc. There is no harm as long as it continues as a friendship.
However, often such persons in a position of authority by virtue of their seniority, try to take advantage of gullible girls like you by employing methods for which they (the girls) will fall easily and gain their sympathy. And what better way than to use their own wife whom they will paint as the Villain De Piece.
This ruse on the part of these older man, breaks down all the resistance between the two of them and entraps the girl in a web of emotional-blackmail.This many times becomes the starting of an Affair Without a Future where the older man derives his desired gratification and the poor girl is lead to ruination by her guilty conscience which will keep tormenting her for the rest of her life. For rarely will such men, for reasons best known to them, divorce their wife in favour of the younger woman.
Better let your Head overrule your Heart and you end up maintaining a professional friendship,Only.
2007-03-09 07:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter when it comes to love. But this guy is married...if he has a nagging wife it is his problem. Let him sort it out. You are v young and have a life ahead of you. This is just a fantasy. If I were you I would not let this friendship go further. There are plenty more fish in the sea....get a life girl.
2007-03-09 21:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by AngelEyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya that's way to old Hun the reason you feel comfortable around him is Cus he is a father figure to you and he fills the void of something that happened to you when you will little
this is so wrong to do i hope you know i have nagging married friends and let me tell you they nag about everything and to everyone but there husbands either except the fact that that's how they are or they talk to there wife's and go to counseling with there wife's to get them to stop but cheating is not an option and what kind of man is he is he knows that you are 30 years younger and he is married and he still is leading you on and Trying to get you to sleep with him what a man what a man he is a dirt bad hunny and dont let yourself stoop to his level cus if you cheat with him you are just as bad as he is and cheating is one of the worst things you can ever do hunny
2007-03-09 06:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl can fall in love with anyone. Just be carefull.. you dont want to get to close to him because of the fact that he is married... even though he may have problems he may be commited... and that would just set you up for a let down and no girl wants or needs that.
2007-03-09 06:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by amber.lynz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl can't love a man but a women can, which he already has one in the form of a wife leave them alone.
2007-03-09 11:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by Abhijat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋