i have many freinds or just people i hang out with at school
i need a close friend
to share with my feelings and thoughts without embarsment
i cant find that friend
help meeeeeeeee
2007-03-09 05:51:23 · 6 answers · asked by justice91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As the saying goes, "to have friends, one must be a friend". If you want people to trust you to be their close friend, you have to prove that you are worthy of their trust. If you run around in the gossip circles, the popular crowd or clicks, you are demonstrating that you will share secrets and therefore can't be trusted. Stay clear of situations that would show others you aren't dependable. Show them that you can be a really close friend and one will show up sooner than you think. You just might be surprised who it will be too because it is usually someone you would least expect.
2007-03-09 05:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be a young individual looking for acceptance.
I don't know you are from or how you were raised.
You should be very careful as to how you declare people to be your friend. You should not be too open about your personal life. People will disappoint you and let you down
I am not trying to discourage you from creating friends.
You have to be careful in your selection of friends and it not wise to let people know know your secrets and flaws.
Possibly, they can turn against you and mock you.
Play your cards right. When you select friends. Keep them at a certain distance. Learn more about them over time and you will see and find out more of their character.
2007-03-09 06:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Big P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people make the mistake of "attaching" themselves to other friends thinking that this will make them closer. Don't make this decision because then you will end up annoying them instead. Just be yourself around your friends and tell them you care about them. Friendship is like love..it's about the chemistry! Good luck!
2007-03-09 06:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lizbiz333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's really a "how to" thing. you can't just go looking for close friends they just kinda show up. it's just something that happens all on its own. my closest friend is someone i had never even talked to or thought about talking to until one day she showed up at softball practice & we just clicked. we've been really close ever since.
2007-03-09 07:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by i_play_6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get to know those many friends individually....hang out with them one on one, to get to know their personality and character really well.
2007-03-09 05:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what you want in a friend. then embody that. you'll naturally attract that kind of friend.
2007-03-09 05:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by uniqueness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋