My girlfriend of 3 years dumped me, didnt really tell me why, but just started dating a 25 year old right after me, i recently got my ex ex girlfriend preggers, and she is having an abortion, but told me im immature. I am 23, i dont have a job, and im not in school, but plan to go back.Anybody have any suggestions on how to turn my life around.
2007-03-09 05:37:44 · 8 answers · asked by yep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, using condoms is a good start. Get a job, your own apartment (if you don't have one), a car (also if you don't already), start thinking about the future. What do you want to do with your life? Who are you? Read some books. Etc. The rest of growing up, only comes with time.
2007-03-09 05:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by bluestar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Once you have a degree and a great job and $$$ you'll end up with a much younger girl than the ones that dumped you. (By this time she'll be the same age as these women are now). They'll be all "D'OH!!!!" when they see your perfect family with beautiful twins walk past them in the park. Think Doctor or Real Estaste Office Owner in Ralph Lauren garb.
All the best!!
2007-03-09 16:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you can perform a biological function and produce a baby doesn't make you a man since they can now do it from a test tube without any human contact. I think you need to find out what life really is all about and it isn't sex.
Try attending a Bible believing church and join the singles group there. You will find what is missing in your life that will make you a better overall person, let alone a real man.
2007-03-09 14:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say I'm sorry you're hurting over this, but it's that hurting that's going to help you out.
The only thing you can do is keep going in life. Everyone 'matures' in their own time and in their own way.
Take a look at who and where you are right now in life and decide for yourself if you think that what you're doing is upstanding or appropriate for you.
2007-03-09 13:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by girlsincamelot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and go to school. Take on some responsibility. No respectable woman wants to date a jobless guy.
2007-03-09 13:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real men have steady jobs. Boys don't.
2007-03-09 14:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start using condoms, for one thing.
2007-03-09 13:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about anything you do before doing it. weigh your options... if you can do that, maturity would come naturally.
2007-03-09 14:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lord_poseidon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋