my husband and I just got back together 2-3 months ago after being seperated for a year. We still do not live together because we are taking things slowly. We have two children whom we both adore greatly. He is always at my house during the week and I stay at his house from friday-sunday. He wants to rent out the two spare bedrooms he has in his condo. He stated to me his aunt called him and has a potential renter. My only concern is that it's a female. Now some may think we seperated because he was cheating and that is why I may be concerned but it is nowhere near that reason.
But should I be concerned if a female was to move-in and our problem before was communication? Please help me that way I can talk to him about this situation....
2007-03-09 05:36:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jacinda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move back with him, full time, as in a normal healthy marriage.Living apart will do u no good anymore, in fact it can harm u, a female tenant or not.
2007-03-10 23:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should probably be concerned with another woman living in the same house as your husband regardles of past issues.
If she moves in, he will be hittin' it. People will say that if there if you trust your husband this should not be an issue. However, it is the situation that you must trust. If your husband is in a compromising situation, he could be John the Baptist up in the b i t ch and he will still hit it.
2007-03-09 13:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a less than desirable situation. You two are just getting things back together. You should guard against any possibility of it blowing up, no matter how insignificant it might seem. Tread carefully, and good luck with the continued mending.
2007-03-09 13:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's inappropriate on his part. If the two of you have been separated for 2-3 months, you obviously have issues you need to resolve. Why even take the chance on an additional issue? Neither one of you need that.
2007-03-09 14:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to get back living together now, with your children, and get your family and relationship back on track. Then he can rent his condo to anyone.
2007-03-09 16:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him flat out...you feel uncomfortable with another woman living in the house with him..No that you dont trust him...its you dont know or trust another woman...Make him feel like he is god and any woman would want him and you fear he might get trapped into doing something he doesnt want to do. Allow him to think your concerned and not jealous.
2007-03-09 14:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would set down like adults to talk about it and let him know how you feel. Explain if you had the room and were looking at men renting how he would feel.
If he doesn't respect your feelings about, then you need to rethink your situation.
2007-03-09 13:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your talking about a guy...guys think with two heads...now ask the question again after thinking about that!
2007-03-09 13:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋