being a jerk? He says that I'm hot as well but he talks so much about other women that I can't help but get jealous. Then he says that he could get any p*ssy he wants because lots of women want him. And he says I'm supposed to feel special by that comment.
2007-03-09 05:33:57 · 8 answers · asked by angie 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You're not supposed to feel special by that comment. he's either insecure or being a jerk. It's ok if he talk about celebrities because they are in the public eye and you probably think some celebrities are hot, too. So, this is called admiration. But, a guy that gloats he can get any girl he wants is either insecure or a really just being a jerk. When he says another comment, I would tell him to just stop. Put your foot down and tell him you will take no more of these comments because they are hurtful and rude. He should get it the first time. if he doesn't, and you still want to be with this guy, give him a taste of his own medicine. Start talking about your past relationships in great detail. Say: "My ex, Bob, was so hot. He was so cut. His six-pack was way better than yours. And he was so awesome in bed." The truth is that these comments will make him feel insecure because he was insecure to begin with. He will realize he doesn't need to make you feel bad because he thins you are so hot, and this is his strange way of trying to keep you. It's weird. But, when a girl is really special and a guy really likes her, he doesn't want to fall hard for a girl. That makes him come off looking whipped. So, he's basically afraid you can find someone better, and this is his way of easing the pain he is afraid he might feel. if this 2nd strategy doesn't work, then he is a jerk and walk away.
2007-03-09 06:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by nicoleblingy2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should you feel special because you have something that everyone else has had? I think you should dump him and let him see that you are infact too "hot" for him. That guy obviously is only thinking with one part of his body. Maybe when he gets more sense, he might see there is more to women that just a "hot" body. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-09 05:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a man and men do that stuff all the time. He's trying to make you jealous on purpose too. He likes the reaction you are giving him. Act like it doesn't bother you and I swear he won't do it anymore wow what a jerk
2007-03-09 05:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Iluvhim 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him for a list of chicks that want him ....... tell him u want to make sure he is worth it........ then when he has no list or makes excuses then u can call him on it.
but honestly by your question you seem pretty young....... maybe too young to start dealing with relationships
2007-03-09 05:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by imwatch420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means hes immature and insecure. Not good boyfriend material
2007-03-09 05:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by mia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living in his own little "Dream World" . Tell him to get a real
Life.
2007-03-09 05:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're "hot".....he's young
2007-03-09 05:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by cheyguy2308 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just horny.
2007-03-09 05:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋