i feel so low and every relationship i do lately jus messes up?
i dont know whats up with me and i feel so down?
what is up with me?
2007-03-09 05:31:56 · 12 answers · asked by youngboff 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Its not that i dont have friends i have tons and hang around with them yet i still feel depressed
2007-03-09 20:18:35 · update #1
Your just having bad luck. Chin up and take a trip.
2007-03-09 05:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can diagnose you over the internet. you should make an appointment with a psychologist, or is you're still in school, try going to the counseler, they could refer you to someone who can help. if it is just becuase of relationships, then some things you should probably work on are these.
try not dating for a while, and working on yourself. if you find that you are lonely and depressed when you are not in a relationship, thats not a good sign. you might have become dependant on having someone else make you happy. you have to learn how to make yourself happy, becuase if you don't, you will find yourself impuslively jumping into relationships that you really didn't want to be in simply becuase you can't stand to be a lone. then when you wake up and realise you really don't want to be with this person, you may feel trapped, but don't want to leave for fear of being a lone again. you should spend some time finding something you really like, like a hobby or something, or get into a sport and work at it....you need things in your life you can feel proud of, and things that will boost your self esteem. and...where are your boys at? hang out with your friends! if you don't have any, then that is probably a good reason why you are having problems. get into some sports or hobbies like i said, and you will meet some new friends, i promise.
2007-03-09 13:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by rock chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe thats why your depressed..your relationships are not working out. Brain chemicals or the winter weather gets people down or a life experience. Studies also show that depressed people have a restriction or blood flow to the brain and when that is released the depression goes away. I would suggest you go on some meds. short term and see what happens.
2007-03-09 13:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some friends together and go hiking. The longer the better. At least, this is what works for me. I get tired of the people, the city, the electronic gizmos, and most particularly the noise. If I go hiking for a long time, I no longer feel quite so trapped by it all. Also, there's hardly a better thing you can do with a girl you are interested in. You keep her in shape, keep yourself in shape, spend no money, and have unequalled scenary. Come live in Colorado, we'll go hiking.
"Rocky Mountain Highhhhhhhhh"
2007-03-09 13:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see your doc i suffer from really bad depression and cos there different types of depression he can let you no exactly whats going one in side you but stop being down on yourself and just keep telling yourself that its only a bad patch and it wont be like this for ever ...trust me it works if u no there's a light at the end of the tunnel you can get through it hope this helps good luck
2007-03-09 13:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by carleighnaghten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probly not going out with the right people!and not doing stuff that you really want to be doing,being around people that dont intrest you make you depressed cause you think that's all you can find but there all lots of people out there to make you happy someday you'll find the right person for you that makes you happy no matter what,go out and have fun think about the future not the past , trust me the right one is out there!life to short to be depressed!!be happy and goodluck
2007-03-09 13:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by lovepink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your suffering from depression and that makes things go wrong negativity will always make bad things happen, You need to snap out of it it ain`t easy but it can be done if you are happy people will like you more etc
2007-03-09 13:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by properwired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what depression is. YOu need to see a Dr. as soon as possible. Surround yourself with people you love, family, friends, keep yourself busy, etc. until you get to the Dr. and even then!
2007-03-09 20:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by elimayme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe you just got out of a bad relationship or you have been having a bad week all you need to do is focus on something chin up and dont get your self down
2007-03-09 13:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Orhan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its one of two things - bad luck or a chemical change that causes depression. try to wait it out, try to get in some activities that satisfy you, and if you are capable of enjoyment, you'll know its just bad luck. if you are nto capable of enjoying yr9ouself, you'll know youre suffering with some biological sort of depressoin, in the which case talk to your doctor.
hoo i forgot its winter. i'm in spain, its a little cold but very sunny.
2007-03-09 13:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probly because the people you date dont make you feel the way you are suppost to feel. Or yuo just have not found the right person.
2007-03-09 13:39:10 · answer #11 · answered by Tomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋