My husband tells me he loves me but shows no interest in going anywhere w/ me,having a conversation w/ me, no sex. I do everything for him that I possibly can. I strongly believe he is addicted to opiates but could he have a girlfriend also? I've gained weight and I think he thinks I'm gross and he has become embarrassed of me. I'm NOT grossly huge and I have a pretty face and hair. Still have a few curves but I'm working on losing weight and working out. Other guys flirt with me and say I'm pretty and that he is a jerk, but my own husband doesn't show me any interest. It hurts my feelings and I feel lonely in my own home. IIf he wants intimacy, he'll be really sweet, then return to his usual "jerk" self. If it weren't for our two sons 11&4, I would truly be alone. Your opinion?
2007-03-09 05:06:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Extramarital sex and/or drugs could be interfering with your relationship.
Try making a date to go somewhere without the kids. Get dressed up, and don't expect too much from him the first time.
Don't "talk about" the problems in your marriage...just enjoy the moment. Don't try to "change him", just try to attract him again.
A soft and tender kiss on the cheek in the middle of a movie, (or demolition derby) is nice.
Make him feel like he is the greatest, and maybe he will be great.
Either way, you will probably enjoy the evening.
2007-03-09 05:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋