how do you stay cheerfull and happy when you know people dont like you and will do anything to hurt you.?

Question

With no reason except they dont like you or your kind.

Answer 1

think positive and the people that like u.

If people will do anything to hurt u, u cant be cheerful..just get away from then or talk why they want that

Answer 2

You don't. You enjoy the moments and nothing more. 'Cause you're too busy being wary.

To share a bit of my life:

Think you’ve had it rough,
livin’ in a ‘hood on the hard side of town.
You ain’t seen nothin’ yet!
Think Hell’s Kitchen is tough
or the Bowery is mighty rough.
It’s nothin’ to where I’ve been!

Try livin’ on skid row
in a hot, dirty Texas border town.
Think the Bloods or Crips are bad and mean.
You ain’t been around!
They ain’t nothing’ to the Pachucos or now the MS13.
Those creeps live with a hate for all people white,
especially if you’re the only white boy of thirteen.

Livin’ in your own country, son
in a dirty Texas border town.
Bakin’ under the hot, desert sun.
Livin’ where its all rundown.

Livin’ in a foreign land on your native soil.
Afraid of livin’ and sure you’re gonna die.
If not today then probably tomorrow.
Livin’ with a hate that is obvious and keen.
Knowin’ that there’s a brown colored guy out there
just achin’ to slip a shieve into your spleen
for no other reason than you’re a white boy of thirteen,
livin’ on skid row
in a hot, dirty Texas border town.
I hope you’ll never know.
Its worse than it might sound.

Where not even your language is spoken
or your customs shared,
even as a token,
but you must keep their’s
Treated as a stranger in your own land and town.
They’re lookin’ at you with hate
as if you’re the despised immigrant
and they,
the rulers of the land and the town.

I’ve lived in many nother town
in ‘hoods from the best to near the worst.
In none, did I find the hate and loathin’
like I found on skid row
in a hot, dirty Texas border town.

Sadly this tale is true. I lived it. It’s not quite so obvious now but I assure you it remains. It is now the avowed aim of the Nation of Mexico to re-conquer the lost territory and perhaps all of the United States by forced immigration and massive population. They are using our own laws to distort our economic system and usurp our political system. We are at war with Mexico though it be undeclared. We must beware of the Quislings within our nation.

Answer 3

Love yourself & you will be happy. If some people don't like you, it's their problem & not for you to worry about. Although, when you love yourself, you usually radiate a confidence & peace that others will respond to favourably. If you hate yourself, they'll pick up on that & may dislike you too. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.

I'm learning to like myself & people have been overall been nicer to me...I don't think that's a coincidence. There will always be some ignorant or mean people, I wouldn't worry about them. I'm sure that the people who matter to you like you!

Take care.

Answer 4

It is hard to even obtain a state of happiness for ones self when those around you bring you down. I found Y!A as a salvation for me. I have found here that there are people like myself and that has given me joy. Grant it there are those very same people on here as there is in real life that attack you for no reason other than a dislike but on here I have other's that will come to my aid and that alone makes me grateful and happy.

Answer 5

I have a lot of experience with this. Being in gangs and knowing people in gangs there are always people who dont like you for no f***ing reason. That's just how life is. we can't be perfect and even if we were someone is always gonna not like you and try to hurt you. But my advice to just ya know, to not give a damn. Act to the best of our ability that you couldn't care less. However, if they try and actually physically hurt you that's when you have to take care of your business. Intolerance is a b***h, one of life's lessons. Just be positive always...no matter what.
My bad for language.

Answer 6

Well you could start by realizing what a small percentage of people are actually this way.

Most people do not seem to be the way you are describing so that is something positive to be cheerful about.

The vast majority of us think that you are perfect just the way that you are.

Love and blessings Don

Answer 7

Happiness is only affected by the opinions of other people when you make it so. It's affected when you value their opinions more than you value your own worth and feed your own self-doubts.

Instead of accepting those people as testimonies to who you are (when all they really are is testimonies as to who they are), see them as lessons in how you can be a better you.

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"When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you." -- African proverb

Answer 8

I always lived without listening to them. It's for that I walk sure and quiet, the contrary it would be to fall sick and troubled. I learn that if someone hurts me that means he has a problem and that is HIS problem, not mine. When I do all to respect everything (ecology) and everyone (humanity), nothing can trouble me.

Answer 9

You only hurt yourself when you allow others to hurt you. I for one wouldn't care if, People didn't like me. That's their own insecurities they would have against Me. Life goes on, with or without them or me on that matter.

Answer 10

i think that its funny when everyone hates me. i start making up really dumb reasons in my head of why they would hate me so much. some of them include:
1) they wish they didn't have to wear underwear with thier names on them
2) i accidently sent them to the hospital that one time i said i liked thier shoes.
3) they like my mom