You're straight, bi, or gay/lesibian? I'm just curious.
2007-03-09 04:52:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I said just curious...b/c thats all I guess you can say I really am...
I've never really had a boyfriend b4, but I have liked guys...and well I've had tons of friends who were girls...I guess in a way you can say I've been attracted to them...I find them all gorgeous and have had thoughts of kissing them, but never acted on it or even remotely told them about it *in order to not freak them out*...and my mom and sister constantly question me about my sexuality *which is hard to handle being I'm not really even sure myself*. My sister constantly calls me les, carpet muncher, and ubber dyke, along with other names...and my mom constantly asks if I've seen any cute guys and what not. and when we watch tv and they have gay ppl on it she constantly disses them and basically does what any other bible holder does says its a sin and what not.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is what would be your opinion as to my sexuality based on that?
2007-03-09 05:19:53 · update #1
Okay, first off, your sexuality isn't the underlying problem, the family sounds like more of a headache. Sister is dissing you big time, she needs to knock it off and you don't need it. Mom is pushing you towards a relationship that you don't even know if you want because she is deeply afraid that you might be homosexual and in her heart she is religiously prejudiced against homosexuality.
Whether you are heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual will be determined by whom you eventually decide to have sexual relations with. Sex is not some easy thing that you just slide into bed with someone. You may be labled as one of the above three lables (as your sister already has in her crude way) but that does not dictate to you what YOU want. Many people have fantasies about people they see, both of thier sex and the opposite sex, they just don't admit them because of the backlash from people like your mother.
You need to decide what is your desire, based on the people you know. If you listen to that inner self, you might be surprised at what it is telling you. And once you get enough self-esteem back, you can tell sis the way it really is and perhaps even calmly discuss YOUR life with your mother.
2007-03-09 05:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by sapphire 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. Maybe you need to just try and hook up with someone or something. You may be bi but you haven't really done anything sexually, right? Well, at least not with girls...I guess we need more info.
2007-03-09 09:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one of those either you are or you aren't.
For some people it's hard to know so they experiment but other they have just known it since they were young. The way you know is by knowing what sex(s) your are attracted to. To know what those are check Raynebow_Diva's answer.
2007-03-09 05:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curious about what exaclty??
Straight= you are attracted to the opposite sex.
Bi= you are attracted to BOTH sexes.
Gay= you are a male attracted only to other men.
Lesbian= You are a woman who is attracted to other women only.
And there you have it.
2007-03-09 05:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I've been all in my wet dreams.. except for crossdressing ,,Most of the time I'm just nude.
2007-03-09 05:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋