My husband told me of a conversation he had with another woman about breast size. He said she made the comment that she couldn't find big enough bra's and mentioned that his wife was big breasted too, and she was like how big is your wife? I told him I did think it was appropriate question he said there was nothing wrong with it then i told him what if a man came up to me at work and mentioned that his balls are so big it's hard to find underwear that fits right and I said oh my husband has the same problem. He didn't comment on that. WHAT DO YA'LL THINK?
2007-03-09 04:47:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally, I do not think you have anything to worry about. If you did, he would never have told you. Was it in bad taste? Yes, she obviously has no idea of what is and is not appropriate, but because she used you in the conversation, your husband probably felt it was innocent in nature. You made your point though, or he probably would have said something back to you.
2007-03-09 05:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by topcat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that your comparison is not relevant, to be honest. Your husband did not mean to offend you, - at least that's how it sounds from what you describe. It was just a chit-chat, nothing more. The size of your breasts obviously does not bother him and he is open enough to tell you honestly about his conversation with that woman. Why does it bother you? I think that the worst you can do is make a problem out of it. Because if you do, then your husband won't feel safe to be honest with you.
2007-03-09 13:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there's a bit of a difference between breast size and balls size. Though breasts are erogenous zones they are not reproductive organs.
I think their conversation was harmless. It sounds a bit like you're a little sensitive about your size (some women would kill for your problem, others have themselves cut on to create it).
By the way, your husband is smarter than most. ... no way he could win that one.
2007-03-09 13:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he was definately out of line. I have been through a relationship recently where my soon to be ex-husband had an hour and a half long conversation to a girl at work supposedly mostly about me. He ended sleeping with this girls best friend that just happens to work there also. You have to watch out for signs like these. He may of just done a stupid incensitive thing, but watch for other signs. DONT IGNORE YOUR GUT!!!
2007-03-09 13:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with you that this is highly inappropriate. Obviously your husband did too by not commenting on the reverse situation but he doesn't want to admit it. I wouldn't worry too much though -- if your husband had something to hide with this person he probably wouldn't have told you. If he keeps coming home with stories like this though, I would probably have to confront her. Good luck!
2007-03-09 14:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that the conversation ur husband had with that woman was very inappropriate. the subject of body parts and especially private parts are never to b discussed in such contexts, plus he's a married man.
i find ur reaction very normal and its good u made a point.
2007-03-09 13:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mirt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a very intimate question and conversation he had with this woman -- shouldnt be happening. Good for you to bring it up to his attention that it bothers you. If he didnt answer you its because he knows that he would be totally outraged if you were talking that way with a man.
2007-03-09 15:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was extremely inappropriate of your husband. He is totally wrong not thinking it wasn't. Sounds as though the two of you need to talk more....
2007-03-09 16:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋