Any other woman out there that are married but still feel lonely and single?

Answer 1

Yeah, I do, but not for lack of seeing eachother physically. It is more subtle. We spend time together when we can sometimes we cook together or play games etc.. but we both work and have two kids and not a lot time or energy for more deep interactions. Sometimes I feel lonely spiritually and emotionally because I feel like we have such a pattern and routine, that there is no time to bring out those other parts of our personalities and bond on a deeper level. Little by little it feels like the real you, inside, starts to disappear. But the most important part is the kids, if you have them, so until they are grown you have to find other ways to keep that part of you alive. But you may not have children, maybe you just married a man who is not mature enough to realize that a marriage is more than having the stability and comfort of having a woman around when it's convienent. Men are drawn to strong women, so find ways to make yourself happy, and become less dependant on him for your happiness. Soon he may be vying for your attention.

Answer 2

yes i do. i came into the idea that being married meant i wouldn't feel alone. I feel more alone now then when i was single. I got married months after i moved into a new town, so i never had a chance to make friend. I have to great kids and i'm a stay at home mom which make me feel more along, and in this small town there's no such things a play groups and stuff like that to connect with other moms. I spend most of my time on the internet, which has got me in alittle.

Answer 3

Yes. Well I am not legally married but we have been together for 8 years and have 3 kids together. He is a truck driver so I only see him every couple of weeks but when we are together I still feel lonely. Most of the time we do our seperate things and don't do too much together.

Answer 4

YesYesYes,My husband is absorbed in his work and in his own little world. Single friends go out and do things I can't do and married friends are into babies and grandbabies. I don't have these things and I envy their interesting lives. So, I play on the computer and hope to connect with someone that understands. I don"t want anything that is wrong, just a feeling of belonging would be fine.with me.

Answer 5

How long have you been married? Because that kind of matter's,If for a short time,no kid's,step back & look at the full picture,If for a long time,like me w/ kid's,it'sharder to know what to do.I am pretty lonely most the time,17yrs.!!! married,together,21yrs.!!!!time doe's change thing's I've found! We used to be real close,now the fire's not as strong as it was,I still love him,but,it's hard to talk to him now.We need to think& care about ourselve's more,I'm trying.I do know how you feel.

Answer 6

I do too, I'm also not legally married with my man but we have been together for 6 years now and have a 4 year old. He works most of the day so we only see him at night when he just wants to relax and watch tv and pretty much doesn't want to play with our son.

Answer 7

Yes. I am married. I am lonely. My hubby owns his own business and is never at home. I am the mom and dad to my kids. He just makes the money. It can be depressing at times, but look at the bright side of it. You can do what you want, when you want....within the law.

Answer 8

Wow! I am there with you. I keep telling him those exact words, and all I hear is that I am doing something wrong. Looking back, I see how much he has changed, and I have pulled away because of it. Now, here we are. Married, but not!

Answer 9

Hmmmm

Answer 10

Yes my husband work all the time. we just bought a new house and i starting to hate because i never see him. i miss him so much....