Is it possible to grow attached to someone?
My situation:
Lets say it all began as a sort of F-Buddy relationship, but as time went by, both our attitudes towards eachother changed. [He works in Naples I live in Miami, 2 hours away, he drives down every weekend to see me and we spend the entire wknd together] He calls me everyday to see how i'm doing and he's really sweet whenever we are together, and it's not only for the sex now.. It's been about 5 months now so,
My question is: is it possible for feelings to grow from this sort of relationship? Is it possible that i'm falling in love with him or he with me?
[He makes me feel so good, and I count down the days until I get to see him again!! We have so much in common it's unreal :)]
Maybe i'm jumping to conclusions here, but I just need someone's opinion on it, what do you guys think. Thx :)
2007-03-09 04:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Hmm..
I think I already answered this question girl. Well anyway, here it goes..
I sure is possible, Everything must start out somewhere right?
Sounds like you two have something other than the whole F-Buddy thing, maybe you have grown fond of eachother..
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder" ever hear of this? It's true, and it sounds like it's the situation you're dealing with.
I say you enjoy every second of it, and let things take their course, from the sound of it, it seems like you two are going somewhere with this. Good luck sweetie *hugz* :O)
2007-03-09 04:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the first time I met my now BF we were extremely attracted to eachother. Both Physically and Mentally. He was HOT and we had a lot in common! lol For a while we were just best friends and one day things went further and we became Friends with benefits. After a few months of this we both relaized that we didn't want the other to date any one else. We were falling for eachother and not even realizing it. So we decided to make this official and a year after our first meeting we became a couple. We now live together and we have had some ups & downs mostly because adjusting from being Best Friends to Lovers to A committed couple has been tough. We know things about eachother that normal couples wouldn't know so fast. But I'm telling you... I am happier than I have ever been. Following our hearts was the best decision either one of us has ever made.
If you both feel this way then it means you have something special. The two hour distance may be dificult at first but you will work it out. We used to live an hour and a half apart so I know where you are coming from. I wish you only the best!
Good Luck! ;-)
2007-03-09 12:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two already are having feelings. If he was just a f-buddy, then he wouldn't give a d@mn to call and see how you are. And newsflash: you've already fallen for him. Love can grow from any situation.
2007-03-09 12:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I think if you see someone every weekend, and you talk to them every day, it is possible that you are both starting to think of each other as more than "friends with benefits".
2007-03-09 12:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tony M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're describing exactly the situation me and my b/f, NOW HUSBAND was in.
It is quite possible for you to feel for him, and it's perfectly natural feasible and natural.
Go for it. I did, and look at me, happily married, with 2 kids !
2007-03-09 12:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very possible.
2007-03-09 12:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by gizmo0013 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, you have...you are...you most definitly are
2007-03-09 12:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋