ok here is the problem, there is a girl named kayla, a girl name erin, a girl named dasha, a girl name amanda, and a girl named cierra. We all used to be good friends. I dont like cierra and i never liked cierra because she talk bad about everyone even her friends. So everyone followed and she finally left our group. then it was all ok until erin asked me to ask kayla about her, to see if she said anything bad. She did. So erin was mean to her and kayla left and went with cierra, and amanda went with kayla. Now its me, erin, and dasha. Now this is what i want to happen, i wish me, kayla, erin, dasha, and amanda were friends again. but this cant happen because erin HATES Kayla and kayla HATES erin. I cant bring them together because erin wont even talk to kayla and even if they did, kayla would stay with cierra, because shes a sort of follower. I tried to talk to kayla and it was good, but then cierra said bad things about me to kayla, and now kayla HATES me, so this is soo hard. HELP!!
2007-03-09 04:09:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ANYONE HAVE THE ANSWER TO THIS PROBLEM?? ANYONE HAVE A MIRACLE ANSWER??
2007-03-09 04:10:21 · update #1
PLUS, im in elementary school, so those are like the only girls, the other ones are just not right and weird.
2007-03-09 04:14:11 · update #2
Look in life you are going to have friends that don't get along, its a part of growing up. this isn't second grade anymore you can be friends with whom ever you want even if another friend doesn't want you to be. Just know that you can't tell Erin's business to Kayla if she hates her. And if Cierra talks about everyone behind their back don't associate yourself with her. Your friends who left the group with her will find out the hard way that she can't be trusted.
So stop stressing about it and talk to who you want to talk to. And if they don't want to be your friend anymore because two of your friends in your group can't get along, then forget them they are not worthy of your friendship.
2007-03-09 04:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite all of your friends to a sleep over. Sometimes if girls are thrown together they will be forced to talk and get to the root of the problem. Don't be the go between friend. If you don't watch your butt, you could be the one left without any friends. I know it's hard in elementary school. Tell Erin and Kayla to remember the good times they had with each other. Don't gossip, I know it's hard because it's in our genes as women but try not to. I hope everything goes OK. At your age it's normal to not like someone one week and be their best friend the next. Good luck!
2007-03-09 12:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Bates 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanna be recognised as someone thats in a group of shallow girls or someone thats on her own and can stand her ground ??? the reason u asked this q shows a lil integrity on ur part so id suggest u let go of ppl that make u well feel the way u are rite now.. real friends dont do that !!!! its basically all upto u though... u know how u want ur life to turn out... i just think you'd be a lot better off without all thiss drama ! start thinking like a grown up with an identity of her own and not like a lil girl thats lookin for jus acceptance from ppl that dont have even half a brain !
2007-03-16 03:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie andtell kayla stuff nice that erin says and say that erin wants to be friends with kayla again and do the same for kayla it works every time!
2007-03-16 20:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go find another group of friends even just till things cool down between all of you. What age are you because if you are any older than yr 6 you will have to stop fighting soon and learn to get along because you will Be going to high school soon and not many people fight like that well at my school any way tell me how it ends up please cya
2007-03-17 01:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is some unneccsary drama that you should just leave alone, be friends with the friends you have and make new friends because these girls are followers and dont have minds of their own, since these girls are followers and dont like each other for reasons that are so unneccsary. just move on but remember because when you get to highschool you can try to avoid drama like this( this is typical highschool drama). stop stressing.
2007-03-09 12:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a new set of friends!!! Quit pushing the point of having them all be friends. Just be happy with the ones you have and try not to get in the middle. Also, with girls - the cat fighting never stops
2007-03-09 12:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by danczar1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i understand where ur coming from. i had a situation just like urs . what happen was that all Bridgette, Mandy, heather and me just stop getting along . on girl started a remor and next thing u know i end up having no friends. or a while . on of their school teachers knew we were friends for years and wanted us to fix it. she sent us to our school councilor . so try that or if u want me 2 give u more aive email me amanda_oleary2000@yahoo.com ill be happy 2 help u out
2007-03-17 12:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by amanda o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The miracle answer is to stop hanging out with all of them in a group. They don't like each other and won't be mature about it. Decide who you like as a person and as a friend and become closer with them.
2007-03-09 12:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋