My best friend started leaving me out and ignoring me as soon as a new girl came around. The new girl is bad news, but my friend, or "ex" friend doesnt see it that way. She acts different now and no longer cares about rules. I want to be her friend, but how can i if she pushes me away?
2007-03-09 04:09:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry you're going through this -- it's a hard situation. Talk to your friend, tell her how you're feeling. A lot of times when someone new comes along, it's easy to get caught up in that and forget about the people closest to us. Let her know how you're feeling without sounding needy or jealous. Maybe the three of you could do something together. If she ignores you or tries to minimize your feelings, she may not be the kind of friend you want anyway. Also, branch out and look for new people with similar interests/attitudes and make some new friends so that you have a network of people to do things with rather than just one. Good luck!
2007-03-09 05:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by amarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone for now, maybe soon she would discover what you have said about the new girl. In the meantme find some hobby to occupy your spare time.
I hope your friend comes back to you.
2007-03-09 12:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by ann t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she was not your friend to start with. A real friend is always there for you and with you threw everything. A so called friend that is here today gone tomorrow, you don't need that. Find a friend that you can count on.
2007-03-09 12:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's met someone who she thinks is exciting. This is new to her & she's enjoying it. Just hope that this phase she's going through wears off soon & she comes back to her senses.
All you can do is talk to her & try to invite her to do things with you. If she doesn't want to then you'll have to accept it & find another friend.
2007-03-09 12:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That same thing happend to me when my best friend got a boyfriend. All i did was told her how i felt and yelled a little bit.hehe
2007-03-09 12:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then dont!!! go find your friends and do everything with each other. Sleepovers, invite all but her maybe than she will realize how she has been acting!!
2007-03-09 12:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Wings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goin thro the same thing.. its hard.. i dunno sit her down talk to her and ttell how u feeel n tell her that she is pushin u away and ur tryin to win her back.. it didnt work with me tho so im tryin to let go of her :P but it might work with urs.. who knws ...
2007-03-09 12:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by SSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋