a male friend of mine recently asked if he and i could become a couple,what puzzles me is he only calls me about 3 or 4 times a month,but yet he wants to be my b/f? i dont get this? any thoughts?
2007-03-09 03:58:19 · 7 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just tell him
"we are not cople material, i mean i don't think you are ready to be a cople becuz you are not into it"
"how" he might ask
"emm you call me 3 or 4 tines a week"
find you a bf girl, not him
2007-03-09 04:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how much he calls you may not mean much to him. Calling is something some people are different, if not weird about. If you two see each other kinda frequently, but he calls you rarely, then no worries, he probably just doesn't like using the phone. It's when you only see each other when he calls that things should seem out of place. Don't jump to conclusions or start giving him the third degree, but see if you can get the situation to change a little. When you call him, talk for a few minutes and then say you have to feed your fish or your dog, and have him call you back. If it works he might start getting in the habit of it. Give it a shot. The longer you wait to do something the stronger this habit of his will be. Good luck
2007-03-09 12:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either wants to use u for his own pleasure, or he's really shy...u should tell him something on the lines of if you want to be my b/f, then u need to show it more, like tryin to call me more than 3 or 4 times a month.
2007-03-09 12:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just wants to f**k you.but why don't you talk to him and try t feel him out. i would be just as confused, but really no one on here can help you or answer your question to the point where you will be satisfied. so your best bet is to go to the source and then try to figure it out...........good luck
2007-03-09 12:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then next time u should'nt hang around with gay guys and beside's u could end up being gay anyways. does that answer your question?
2007-03-09 13:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants sex. Dump him.
2007-03-09 12:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by expatmt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a straight....so it offends my sensibilities
2007-03-09 12:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by s g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋