my hubby is a minute man latly. it used to be better is he cheating again.
2007-03-09 03:52:01 · 19 answers · asked by lisaanndubay 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do it again ... and again until he gets it rite. If that don't
work, show him how it's done. He'll catch on sooner or later.
2007-03-09 04:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't necessarily associate a short love session with someone cheating. Sit down and talk to him about foreplay. Tell him that you need more romance and that's where the foreplay comes in. It may just be the fact that you need to get more creative in what you are doing. If you do the same thing every time it can just become a matter of routine and he is seeing it as a quick way to get what he needs. Experiment a bit and it can tend to make him want to wait a little longer to see what happens next. Teasing is a good way to build excitement in both of you. Try this, tell him you have something special planned and start coming up with an idea for a fun filled night. a little alcohol, a little sensual dance, maybe some things you have never tried before. Make up a love menu for him to choose from(things you might enjoy too). Nothing makes a marriage better than to spice it up every now and then. Good Luck.
2007-03-09 12:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cheated on you why did you go back? If you continue to stay with him then you need to communicate with him on a adult level. Tell him what you want how you want it and what feels good. You can also show him these things as well. There are other ways of getting satisfied without having intercourse. Have him do those things that you like before you two have intercourse. You can also give him hand pleasure or oral and when he is about to go stop. Keep doing this a few times over and over. This will not just help him with self control but also will make it much more pleasurable for him as well. He should pleasure you and that should be a must. If he is having another affair I say kick him to the curb and move on with someone that is going to love you the way you want to be loved.
2007-03-09 12:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if he is a true "minute man" than something is wrong, and I don't think he is cheating. The more men get sex, the longer it takes them to... you know. You can try a c o c k ring, I hear they really work, but if he is not willing, and nothing else helps, he could have a medical reason.
2007-03-09 11:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you allow someone to cheat on you?
I believe it is impossible to make someone a better lover. Trust me you can take a horse to water and even explain how to drink but at the end it is up to the horse to want to drink. At least in my opinion. God! knows I have tried everything and nothing has worked.
P.S. Good luck!
2007-03-09 12:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey LisaAnn,
To start with, you can't "make" him do anything he doesn't have interest in doing. He has to want to become a better
lover before you can help him. So, begin by explaining to
him how you would enjoy it soooooo much more if he could
learn different techniques and approaches. Suggest to him
that you watch instructional sex videos together and see if you
might love to try some of it, too?? Ya gotta start somehow!
2007-03-09 12:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he your hubby if you have to use the word "again" when asking if he's cheating? If he wronged you once, shame on him. If twice, shame on you.
As for your question - ask him what really turns him on. try to imitate that. Go to his computer, check out his browsing history, see what kinda stuff he's looking at, and do that kind of stuff (if it's not too gross or unsafe). Guys can be weird.
Good luck.
2007-03-09 13:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to slow down; it isn't the express lane. did he used to cheat? maybe he is tired. although, i don't go for the minute man stuff, take some time do it right is my motto.
2007-03-09 11:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by ESTamez 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sound like it time to pull out the dog collier and make she he does you good. and if he try to finish just your the leash on him to correct what he is doing.may be use some words like wrong boy finish me first be for your can go. or you might need to keep him kennel until he plays right . good luck
2007-03-09 12:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wish him to be better and develop new techniques....let him spend time with a prostitute...I hear there are some really good ones in vegas and legal there so u do not have to break the law
2007-03-09 11:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋