i only want her i dont want to share her with anyone
2007-03-09 03:21:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It sounds like you both need to sit down and have a serious talk about this. If this is something you're not comfortable with, you need to express this to her. Did she say why? Is this just a fantasy of hers? Would it be a one time thing?
My boyfriend (completely straight) and I dabble in threesomes(MFM and MFF)/foursomes(MFMF) at times. For us, it adds to our already erotic sex life. He gets off watching me with other men and women and I enjoy watching him with other women. We ALWAYS play together. If I'm with another woman, he plays too. We "take" her together and then they take me.
It took me a little while to get completely comfortable with it all and some days I'm wondering what they heck we're doing but we have a solid relationship and are deeply committed and in love.
Again, you have to communicate with your wife.
2007-03-09 05:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by philygrl72 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about sharing her then it should be a no-go for both of you. The first rule of swinging is "If it doesn't work for either of you, then it doesn't work for both of you." So she should respect your feelings.
That said, keep in mind that jealousy is a personal problem and not hers. If you are jealous it is because of your own insecurities. Jealousy is the fear that someone else will be preferred over you. It is being insecure about your worth as a person in general and your worth to your wife specifically. You feel you are inadequate for her and that she would leave you for someone else if given the chance, so the jealous protect themselves by "protecting" their spouse from any outside factors that they feel are a threat to them, not their spouse.
In jealousy there is more self-love then real love.
From here, talk it over with her. Tell her exactly why you don't want to do it. Don't argue, just be honest. "Honey, I feel uncomfortable because..." And again, remember, this is your fears and insecurities coming to the surface, not hers.
2007-03-12 16:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dude. Sounds like she likes women. Well unless she lives in my wildest fantasy porno. But she doesn't. This would not be a threesome. It would be her going at it with some other girl while you just watch. Trust me. Its whorse than porn because they don't cut out the stuff you don't wanna see. And the 2 women will just be focusing on pleasing each other. Don't do it man. Its only cool in Porns. Trust me.
2007-03-09 11:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister-in-law did that with another couple behind her own husband's back. Eventually she and the other woman both dumped their husbands and shacked up together. I'd be careful about that if I were you.
2007-03-09 11:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Murazor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try it once. But please note that with a threesome, your wife would be sharing you with someone else.
2007-03-09 11:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that's good!!!
but i think u should talk to ur wife and tell her what u think about this am sure she will understand u
2007-03-09 11:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good idea.
Get to marriage counseling and find out what is going on with her.
2007-03-09 11:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by chattygirlchild 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
She may be gay. Did you see Oprah this week?
2007-03-09 11:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it!
2007-03-09 12:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by lan3na89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww.. your her husband!! why would she want to ruin that?
2007-03-09 11:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by coocoo4cocopuffs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋