up to marry someone? Do any men eventually want to marry a girl like that? Men, have you married a girl like that, why?
2007-03-09 02:10:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
**Why do people say it none of the husband's business how many people his wife slept with!!!** You people are nuts and are basing marriage on a lie. I won't be doing that with my marriage. She might have also sold crack on the street corner or had a gang-band in Singapore. Is that any of my business? I think so.
2007-03-09 02:23:45 · update #1
**Gang-Bang!!
2007-03-09 02:26:02 · update #2
I knew someone like that - she didn't tell her husband how many she was with until after they got married - he freaked, but they worked it out.
2007-03-09 02:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Zabes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I’m sure you posted this just to get a rise out of people (and I don’t mean that the way it sounds!). But, I’ll bite….define “dirty little s**t”. If a man sleeps with 20 people, he’s not a “dirty little s**t”, but if a woman did it, then she would be, right? How do you logically justify those different standards?
But here’s what I heard a guy say once on this issue…”as long as she’s just MY dirty little s**t, I love it”. The key is “JUST MY”. That’s after meeting you, because what she did before meeting you, is none of your business, right?
2007-03-09 02:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a guy, but i thought i'd respond.
if a girl sleeps around a lot she likely has some emotional turmoil in her life... and is seeking affection and attention SOMEWHERE... she probably didn't have a proper childhood.
MOST girls who you might consider s**ts were sexually, physically or emotionally abused as children (by their fathers). this is documented fact.
we don't know what happened in a person's past, and how can we judge them?
most peole change and actually grow...
in the meantime, how do you know what a girl has done in her past? and if you are in love, what is the difference? we are all human beings made from the same "stuff".
personally, i have never asked or cared to know how many people my guy slept with before we met. it's none of my business... and doesn't affect me as a person.
take care
2007-03-09 02:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok carry this one again to cavemen cases. again contained in the cavemen days the adult males could flow round whacking the cavewomen on the genuine and dragging them again to their cave suitable? the reason of that is for a touch cave loving and to create a touch cave toddler. Now once you've 2 cavemen and one cave lady in reality you'll have some cave love with her at a time and in reality you'll produce a touch cave toddler with their genetic historic previous at a time. Now cave women individuals on the different hand favor to discover the biggest, maximum efficient, smartest etc. that she will manage to discover because she would not favor to create a toddler to a cave nerd that wont manage to protect all of them even as a dinosaur wanders by technique of. which means the biggest and maximum efficient of the species live to inform the tale and the genetics of the perfect save going ahead. Now imagine about the animal global the position in case you do not create a toddler (regardless of the truth that your species) your genetic recommendations will die out... And the following is the point. adult males instinctively favor to flow round and attempt to nail each little thing they see to attempt to get their genetic recommendations reproduced and going ahead. it truly is in reality society that imposes the guidelines that you mustn't have 40 5 babies to 40 5 diverse moms. So, the reason that females individuals have a nasty call isn't using something except society that announces you ought to in reality discover one better 1/2...and looks society became more often than not run by technique of guy up until eventually at the moment even as it grew to develop into equivalent, the guy is given a "pat on the again" for dozing with truly some females...
2016-12-05 11:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure they can change, settle down and have a healthy family and life beyond the wild side. Which would you prefer, sow her oats before she meets you or after shes married to you? You have no idea who or what you are marrying until your married to them. If she tells her husband to be, yeah hes gonna freak, but if he loves her he will get over it and be glad its a thing of the past. Its better to live by the dont ask dont tell...then no one has to freak. My husband married a girl like that but now Im as he likes to call me his "whore". Faithful for 6 years and counting.....
2007-03-09 02:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that, and she did settle down, got married had two little boys, then started chatting with guys on the Internet. She actually met two, in the SAME weekend, had sex, then left her husband and her boys. I haven't talked to her in about 8 years, but according to her husband, she sleeps with guys all the time to get things from them.
Disgusting, huh?
2007-03-09 02:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazes me how men sit in judge and jury of women. Its a double standard you have set for yourself and future relationships. People who call ANY woman s**ts have NO respect for the opposite sex. It certainly is NO ONES business what either the man or woman has done or who they were with previous to marriage.
2007-03-09 02:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married a woman like that. she was unfaithful to me and the last three of her hubbys (married 5 times). she made a list of 108 guys she slept with before she met me. cancer put an end to her sexy lifestyle at age 40. nothing else would have.
2007-03-09 02:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why you should never ask how many partners she has had. Just be happy she is a sexual being. That she knows how to make and keep you happy. The rest is non of your business.
Why are girls dirty little sluts for having former partners and her male counterpart is just a "stud"?
2007-03-09 02:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by Bev 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They grow up to marry the men with the BIG BUCKS and live happily ever after.
2007-03-09 02:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋