im 16 and my now ex-boyfriend cheated on me but then he broke up wit me should i feel bad cuz we did something that i really regret shouls i still be friends with him????
2007-03-09 02:09:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
what we did that i regret is have sex i did but didnt want and i dont think im pregnant mayb i dunno............
2007-03-09 02:36:18 · update #1
thanks everybody for ur help ahead of time
2007-03-09 02:36:52 · update #2
You do not need to feel bad. you did nothing wrong. You feel mad, betrayed even used would be normal and acceptable. It does not really matter if you are going to be friends after. You dont need to be best friends. You can still say hi and be respectful when you see him, but you owe him nothing. He is the one that owes you. Hope this helps. Sorry about what happened. Good luck and good health to you!
2007-03-09 02:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do that you really regret? Have sex? He was your boyfriend right...???? So let him kiss and tell if that's what you're afraid of. Get rid of the video you two made if that's the regret!! Don't have any regrets for someone who treated you poorly by cheating on you. He may have been the nicest guy and bought you things and told you that you were pretty........but once he cheats, he's an @sshole.
No need to try and overcompensate and annoy him into being your friend but you two are allowed to be friends....if he still wants to be civil with you. I just don't know why you would want to be......just so he'll keep his mouth shut!!!!!????
Make him aware that what you two did behind closed doors should stay there and you'd respect him a whole lot more (even with the cheating under his belt) if he'd respect you by honoring your wishes. Tell him he at least owes you that for what he's done to you!
2007-03-09 02:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by momto3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I wanted to ask are u pregnant, if so
I feel bad for you bcuz u r so young but I think that babies our a blessing from GOD and that you should not regret, having the baby at a young age is what u should regret or feel bad about. As for your ex I think u should try to have a good relationship with him bcuz he is the father of ur baby and if he is a good person(other than the cheating)he should have a relationship with his son/daughter. If u are not pregnant from this guy you should not feel bad and as for being friends with him, why would you want to be friends with someone who does not respect you. You do not need people like that in your life. I know your young but if in other times the situation presents itself again think about it and learn to respect yourself as a person bcuz there are a lot of liars out there. Hope my answer helped and did not offend you in any way. Good Luck!
2007-03-09 02:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Victoria, i'm sorry to hearken to that there is a touch bit disrespect at your residence---yet a 33 year previous will in no way flow out if mom is dottering and spoiling him---why could he flow?? difficulty is he will in no way ordinary strategies to peacefully co-exist with a woman on a mature aspect...what a shame. you're also witnessing a touch bit crude disrespectful habit that comes from being family members and residing jointly a number of those years. To an interloper this all sounds undesirable--to you and your brother it truly is in reality familiar residing. So say no once you are able to--he gained't explode or turn blue. relax, be cool, be marvelous, and reliable luck-----SMILE
2016-12-05 11:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My child you have nothing to be ashamed of things happen both good and bad.
Just remember we must learn from them or these lesions are in vain.
If he cheated on you than he has no respect for you, so being friends is a bad idea. however I do want to stress not to hate him for this because that will only hurt you, but now you know how Serious sex is please learn from this hard lesion and respect yourself enough to wait until your hart is knows that he and the time is rite. Any good boy will know you are not ready for sex and the problems that may result. I know that sounds dumb but trust they are out their.
Best wishes.
2007-03-09 06:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by mike c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it was really stupid to have sex with him but I can't talk I am only 15 and I have a 3 month old little girl. If he cheated on you I wouldn't even be his friend. People like that are only after one thing and thats to get in your pant.
2007-03-09 10:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're experiencing just another aspect of "growing up." It doesn't feel good, but the best thing to do is to just move on. Don't put any effort into being his friend. Trying to do so at this time will be awkward. Let time take care of it. Remember that the best cure for your hurt feelings is another guy! Focus on that.
2007-03-09 02:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by The Answer Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart you are 16 and I am sorry he hurt you but staying friends will only make things worst, what he did was wrong and he can't take that back he needs to ask for forgiveness and you move on, finish school and maybe God will sen dyou a great man for you and only you.
2007-03-09 02:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by sheane561973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't be friends with him. Guys have trouble being just friends with a female, especially when they've already (i'm assuming) had relations with said female and they have enough testosterone to kill a senior citizen.
You should feel bad. Others will tell you not to, but by feeling bad you'll want to avoid this feeling in the future. You'll learn to better choose a male to be intimate with; hopefully you won't take as long to learn as other young females seem to be doing nowadays.
2007-03-09 02:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think you should feel bad bcuz things happen. yes you should still b friends bcuz you have t5o move on in your life. i had sex with this guy i knew for a long time, at first i thought it ruined our friendship but it didnt. when i first talked to him after that i asked y he didnt talk 2 me anymore and he said he didnt kno i wanted 2 still b friends with him. so now we are closer than before
2007-03-09 02:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋