am i OK? whats wrong with me?

Question

im pregnant 6.1weeks and for the past 3 days all ive wanted to do is cry and cry ive been abit moody im only 18. 19 in 2week im scared aswell cause ive already had a misscarriage around this time last year but i was only a month gone i've all so been feeling really paronoid aswell i've been thinking that my boyfriend is cheating but he said he not and swore he not is it right to be feeling like this

thank you for your answer!

Answer 1

Yeah, sounds like he may have been cheating and passed on an STD to you. Some of them can cause depression and some can fatally affect a foetus.

Answer 2

Talk to your midwife about how you've been feeling. Or, if you haven't had your booking appointment with your midwife yet, see your GP. They can rule out the possibility that an illness is causing your stress and nervousness. Your midwife or doctor can also arrange for you to see a counsellor if you need to talk through your worries, but, often, just a one-to-one session with your midwife can reassure you and help you to cope.

It might help to know that feeling stressed and nervous is not unusual early in pregnancy, and those feelings will probably subside in a few weeks. After all, in addition to the hormonal ups and downs you're going through, your life is changing in profound ways. Many pregnant women initially feel stressed about how their pregnancy and the new baby will affect their careers and other obligations. Once the pregnancy is well under way and you've told friends and family, you'll probably feel more relaxed.

What is certain is that the isolated periods of stress we all experience from time to time will have no harmful effect on you or your baby. As to whether long term stress will harm your baby, some studies have suggested that prolonged, severe stress in early pregnancy can increase your chances of pregnancy complications, such as pre-eclampsia and premature birth. However, other experts have questioned the validity of these studies. Some research has shown a link to hyperactive disorders in pre-school children where there has been long term anxiety and stress during pregnancy, so it is very important that you seek help and support if you are finding stress a problem.

You might be reassured by joining a support group in your area -- ask your midwife what's available. The National Childbirth Trust can put you in touch with other mums-to-be near you and the Active Birth Centre can tell you where your nearest antenatal yoga class is (these aren't recommended before 12 weeks of pregnancy).

The crying is totally normal at this stage of pregnancy but my concern is its linked to your anxiety which hence is causing stress as you do have a previous history of miscarraige the best thing you can do is relax but this isnt as easy done as said so visit your gp

Answer 3

Whoa...slow down. That's the first bit of advice I will give you. Stress is not only unhealthy for you but for your baby too. So stop stressing. It's ok to be moody while you're pregnant. Especially so young. I was 19 with my first one (I have 4 now) I'm sorry you had a miscarriage but your body is a little more mature than at this time last year I'm sure. You also can't second guess your relationship. That's not a good thing. If you don't trust him you need to re-evaluate it. Time for you to put this baby number 1 in your books. Give yourself a pep talk every morning or every time you start to think bad thoughts. Tell yourself that you are fine...you will be fine....and I promise you...you will be. Good luck...chin up and smile. I'm sending you yahoo answer hugs {{{{{}}}}}}}

Answer 4

I'm 7 weeks and I feel the same, I've been bursting into tears for no reason. I think it's quite normal as our hormones are all over the place at the moment.

Try to relax and not to worry as this won't help the baby, spend some quality time with your boyfriend, is he being supportive?

Enjoy your pregnancy and good luck with the baby.

Answer 5

Welcome to the hormonal un-bliss of pregnancy! What you're feeling is perfectly normal and indicates your body is reacting to being pregnant (which means your pregnancy is progressing!) I threw a loaf of bread at my husband's head once when I was pregnant. I immediately started bawling afterwards, saying he must hate me for doing it. LOL. Just let your boyfriend know what's going on, and while he shouldn't take every outlandish thing you think or feel to heart, you should try as best as you can to realize that it's hormones making you feel this way, not your boyfriend or the Pampers commercial with all the sleeping babies (that's the one that made me cry the most, LOL)
Chin up! =)

Answer 6

Please try not to worry, it's not good for the baby.

These sorts of feelings are perfectly normal in pregnancy, especially early pregnancy. It's also normal to be feeling anxious following a miscarriage but please stay as calm as you can.

With regards to your boyfriend this could also be just your hormones, think about why you are feeling this way about him and more importantly talk to him about how you are feeling. Chances are he's not cheating and you're just feeling over venerable at the moment.

Finally congrats on your little one and enjoy this experience, there's nothing like it.

Answer 7

Its your hormones! I was exactly the same from about 6-8 weeks. Crying for no reason and been paranoid.
Good Luck with your pregnancy.

Answer 8

dont worry about it!
i was exactly the same from when i found out i was pregnant (8 weeks) until i went to the doctors, she told me to take some vitamins especially for pregnancy and they worked a wonder! after about a week of taking them i felt better, i wouldnt cry and i wanted to get out the house and actualy do something!
good luck with the pregnancy and try not to worry about miscarridge as this could stress the baby,
happy 18th in 2 weeks
kayleigh :)

Answer 9

My girlfriend was the same way during our 1st i'm a man who's learned 1st hand what pregnant womens hormones get.
Your perfectly fine but........... don't do what my girlfriend did leave hard objects alone if you lose your temper cause it really isn't nice for us lads

Answer 10

You're not okay. You're another female having a child when you're too immature and unprepared. Let's hope you raise your child in a different manner than in which you were raised.

The other stuff may be hormonal, but a lot of it is externally based on real conditions.

Answer 11

its hormones honey believe me you will have good days and bad i have three children and im only twenty i had all the same worries and i often felt like just crying for no reason it is honestly all hormones