I left my husband about 3 month ago. and i feel that i can find no one. for me it is hard to talk to a guy. what do i said? how do you know they like you?
2007-03-09 01:49:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know...some of these folks say you should wait, however, I'm going through a divorce because I lived in a lonely marriage for nine years. I don't want to wait anymore. I waited even after I got married. So get out there, internet date, be cautious. Talk to men about general stuff, join a club. Then maybe you will meet someone new. Good luck and enjoy your life now.
2007-03-09 01:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, well first realize that going back to your husband just for his company is not an option. Get a divorce if you don't love him.
Most of the successful couples I have known and worked with met each other doing something they both enjoyed or they worked together. I married one I worked and trained with and it is definitely (and finally) a success now. But the other avenue is to find enjoyable pasttimes like golf or tennis or even bingo and bowling, and the men there will want to know you if they are available and attracted to you. Make sure they are single now though and wait until you are too. It's not that hard to make men notice women, good or bad. Find a good hobby men like too. Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-03-09 02:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
I think you need time for YOU... to figure out what you want in life and to take care of your needs right now.
You just got out of a bad relationship, what is the rush?
They say it takes 1-2 years for the average person to "get it together" after a divorce or separation.
It might be a good idea for you to do things with friends and family right now... dive into a hobby or two, if you can?
I'm sure that you will meet someone else eventually. take care!
2007-03-09 01:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of all husbands bypass via this at one factor in time, feeling jealous of the time you provide your toddler and not giving him the time he needs. If I have been you i'd on a on a daily basis foundation a number of circumstances teach you appreciation on your husband (had it not been for him you does not have a splash one) by using the two a hug or kiss in line with possibility a marvel lunch the place you're occurring unpredicted and consume with him. enable him recognize you like him, yet preserve the desires of your toddler first because of the fact your toddler is helpless and reliant your husband isn't. If he will become needless to say jealous then in line with possibility have a verbal substitute with him and tell him you will desire to preserve the desires of your toddler because of the fact he/she is so reliant on you for healthful and protection. i'm beneficial he cares with regard to the youngster he became into in charge for generating sufficient to work out that the toddler's care is greater substantial.
2016-12-18 09:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by mundell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it just isn't the right time for you to meet anyone yet. You aren't ready emotionally for another relationship. Are you over your husband yet? Are you even divorced yet? Have you resolved all the issues with yourself that led to the separation? You won't find anyone that makes you happy until you resolve things within yourself. You have to make YOU happy before anyone else can make you happy.
2007-03-09 02:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by sassynsweet1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would just give myself time to adjust to your new freedom, only because you will feel like your on the rebound and problaly have some issues that you need to resolve before getting into a relationship.... good luck
2007-03-09 01:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months alone is not long enough to start looking for love again. You need to take the time for yourself to heal and focus inward. Wrooy about your abilities to find a man later on.
2007-03-09 01:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a guy will happen You need to spend time finding out who YOu are and what YOU are all about.
2007-03-09 02:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going through a period of adjustment right now..and things are not easy for you. you will be able to talk to men if you try to keep calm and cheerful . it wont be easy at first..you can contact me at yahoo.com if you just need to chat with someone.maybe i can give you a little good advice and encouragement.
2007-03-09 02:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has only been 3 months? Geez, you need longer than that to get used to being alone and happy about it.
2007-03-09 02:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋