she has ALL of what he sees on those sites,and she is way good to him
2007-03-09 01:37:07 · 38 answers · asked by gemzexoticagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because some men are just dogs, and he is a cheater, and once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater, if that stuff is on his mind, get away fast because he is just going to keep on hurting you. why is it that guys who are dating supermodels still go out and cheat.. because they dont care, they just want ALL the good looking booty.
2007-03-09 01:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
For starters, what do you mean by a "hook-up"? As I've said before, this can be very damaging to a woman as well as the relationship! It can even be the ending to one. But don't let it be the end of you. What I mean by that is, don't let it start to make you doubt yourself as the truly beautiful person you are! This is what happened to me. I don't know if this is something he is doing behind your back or in your face, but, whatever the case, it still doesn't make it right. I was like you, I thought that I should be "enough " for my man in every way, but, i would still catch him going on those sex sites all the time. If he's doing it behind your back then he knows it's wrong and he's even ashamed of it himself because he knows he has a problem, however, if it is something he shares with you, that could be his way of telling you he just wants to spice up the relationship a little. Even though, if he is "relieving himself" while watching this stuff , in front of you, without your participation, he has a sickness that you'll never be able to fix. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but, you wanted to know. Good luck!!!!!!!!
2007-03-09 01:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by kathy l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You western women don't realise or accept just how totally boring you are when it comes to sex. Latino and Sth east Asian women are amazing intimacy partners ! I personally believe that a man should have different partners for various purposes. Also why do you live in someone's shadow so much that you find out things you really wouldn't enjoy knowing? Just because someone has a relationship with you doesnt mean they must open their whole personal life to you. Mind your own business and if you get on with things of your own individuality ( if you have any that is ! ) you may find that your partner finds you more interesting ! There is nothing worse than someone who won't let the other breathe ! Beauty IS only skin deep. You are probably no challenge and are boring in bed basically ? As for Him? Just doing what men do !
2007-03-09 07:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Thom Jo D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's getting some attention from someone else, an he doesn't want it, so he's shuffling the energy off on the net. He may have desires and cravings he's ashamed of, and this other person is utilizing these feelings as a doorway, and he's trying to download the energy is some way that he can't with you. Are you too nice? Interview him, have him show you the sites, and who he's attracted to. Time for role playing.There is a time for evil *luts, and when it passes it passes. Investigate, assimilate, emulate,and party.
2007-03-09 01:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well , man are "wired" in a certain way ,see , nature made us this way , (kind of), most of us had a set of experiences or were exposed to data,info,visuals, in our forming years , we can develop a taste for certain things about relationships and sex , for a man a beautiful lady is a treasure , but a beautiful woman that does all he likes and has a taste for ...is a Goddess to adore forever , porn on the other hand...gives a twisted view of what real life is ,but still , if his beautiful woman is willing enough to give him better things that he sees.. then he will be whipped .
2007-03-09 01:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by robertman30s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think comedian Ron White said it best: "I believe -- and guys, back me up on this -- if you've seen one woman naked, you...want to see the rest of them naked." Not all guys are like that, especially those of us who are married, but there are some guys (just like there are some girls) who want to have a play-toy on the side. You know; no commitments, no deep discussions, no hang-ups, just some mindless sex. For some people it's about excitement, for some it's about ego (being able to attract many members of the opposite sex), for some it's about escape from their lives when they feel they're in a rut or something, the list goes on and on. BOTTOM LINE: For some people, one man or woman isn't enough.
2007-03-09 01:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by sarge927 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
men go on these sites for a quick thrill and not because they are unhappy with their wives or girl friends however if he is actually getting off with somone and not just looking then he is unhappy and needs to be talked too about why he is unhappy what is the other women doing or saying that she is not. i dont mean to sound sexist in that it is affairs are sign and symptoms of something wrong in relationship they already have.
If he is just trouling and looking hundreds of men do it and it does not mean anything tell her to look for hot male and tell him do it in front of him he wont like that one bit lol
2007-03-09 06:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it for a "hook-up" or a "look-up" I'm happily married and have been for almost 20yrs but still enjoy window shopping as does my wife just because you're in love and happy doesn't mean the opposite sex suddenly turns repulsive! curiosity of what is out there continues, but on the understanding that looking does not mean touching!
2007-03-09 04:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ray 888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not that you are not enough quite often guys need to play with themselves no matter what they hace got access to. I am sure that you are fantatastic and so long as he is satisfying you when you want it I would not worry.
However if he is obsessed and more interested in the screen than you then that is not healthy and you need some one who will appreciate you.
2007-03-09 02:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Zaksta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea (ego boost?) im single and have no interested in hooking up with anyone from a "naughty site" ???
2007-03-09 01:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg when will women learn we are animals and some of us cant resist the natural urge to spread our seed.its a man thing.he isn't making love to this women he is s h a g g i n g her.its a man thing I'm afraid.men are simple creatures he probably loves her to bits but if a man ain't being fed at home I'm afraid he goes to a cafe.simple as that.if as i suspect its you you are talking about the balls in your court my dear.in short we think with are Willy's.........now any bloke who is sat on q and a with there partner has clicked of this page b4 his misses learns the truth.lo lbut its fact, cake and eat it yes we do want it.
2007-03-09 01:46:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋