Is he maybe hinting he still loves me and wants me back
We were madly in love for 5 years and I still feel the same. We had a big argument when we split.
His voice sounded similar to that of when he was with me. (his voice is different when he talks to say his mates or family and is softer more loving when with me)he didnt have the loving voice towards me again until I told him how I feel
2007-03-09 01:22:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Giving anyone a second chance is an honorable thing to do but, be forwarned. Don't let your emotions rule your brain. The big question still remains......will he break your heart a second time.
To hurt you once---shame on him. To hurt you twice----shame on You.
Good luck.
2007-03-09 01:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by we_are_legion99 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he now feels bad for what he did but do not confuse sympathy for love. If he wants you back he will come running, please do not read too much into the tone of his voice it is so easy to be mislead. The way you talk or look at someone you have been with for a long time never really changes there will always be a strong connection, but will it be the right one?
2007-03-09 02:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your EX (and for a reason...)!
Don't do it, you don't need him anyway. Everybody feels good when they're wanted by somebody, and the fact that you are speaking to him is probably too much for him to pass up on.
Humans are a greedy race, we all want things even if we don't need them. It always 'comfy' to go back to someone you were with for a while, everyone gets that feeling. But unless you are 100% sure you want him back, and he won't hurt you, I would try to ignore the urges! I know how hard it is trust me, but is he really what you want if he broke your heart?
2007-03-09 04:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you get around. You tell all the guys you talk to that you love them. I knew you were desperate. But you cant love all the guys. Maybe when you grow up you will understand what the word LOVE means. Well what can you expect from a 13yr old mind??
2007-03-11 14:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think rather than asking us, you should ask yourself if it makes a difference to you, and if it does, then I think you should ask him. Communication is one of the ways that we can keep from mis-understanding each other. I could tell you lots of things that it might be, but you need to hear it from the only one who really knows...him. Assumption of anothers motives can really lead to disaster and hurt feelings if you are wrong, so I can only suggest that you open up and talk to him if you strongly feel like it could make a difference. Many times when feelings and thoughts are left unsaid, one never knows what opportunity they have missed.
2007-03-09 01:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by wannaknow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he feels obligated to try and make you feel better. Remember why he is your ex to begin with. Don't look back, continue looking forward. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-09 01:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe start by being his friend for now and then take it from there, don't forget you have wounds that will take time to heal so i would be a friend to him then see how that works. if its meant to be, you will be back with him and if he really loves you, he will accept that till your wounds heal.
2007-03-09 01:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by mycki_d_1972 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do something about it don't waste time on guesswork......trust he still holds you dear especially if he is tone changes when addressing you(a clear sign that you are important to him)
2007-03-11 22:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by lucky 7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋