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I feel really frustrated at my job. I just don't feel well around my colleagues. I didn't like them from the beginning but I took the job because I didn't feel I have much choice at the time.
I like my job and it is interesting but working around my colleagues makes me real sad, angry and frustrated.
I get really silent around them and they annoy me with the way they are. I feel they find me strange and I do act strange around them. I think because I am very different from them I can't seem to get along with them.
The problem is I had never felt well at any job I had and I have changed about 5 jobs for 5 years.
So basically i think it might be me who is not adjusting well and not the others, so I don't know if it 's a smart thing to look for sth I won't find.
Yet i somehow feel I can be more positive and friendly around people I like , and i feel i'm missing sth being so down most of the days at work.
Am i a dreamer ? Should I stay or should i look for a better job?

2007-03-09 01:20:07 · 5 answers · asked by Mimi 2 in Business & Finance Careers & Employment

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In any job you are going to have colleagues you may not like and not only that any job you take will have your good and bad days. If you like your job I think you should stick with it and find the root to the problem. Because it seems that you like to find faults and if you see the people with it the more like you are to "shut down" so to speak... Work should be able to be in a great working environment and you should be happy but if you like what you do you have two options find another company with the same job or figure out what is going on that you don't like your co-workers.

2007-03-09 01:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by De 5 · 0 0

a good working environment is essential for felling good< i would suggest you to go, but as you say it is not the first time I think that even if you go now you will find yourself in the same situation once and again, so I think you should go to some kind of therapy or get a job you can do at home. But I strongly feel you should work on that aspect of your life!!! :)

2007-03-09 01:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Angela Vicario 6 · 0 0

First, ask your self whether this could be a re-occuring situation on your existence... whether it is, maybe the replace could come from interior. you could no longer escape the situation if the situation is inherently something it is yours to possess. no remember how plenty greener the grass seems you could no longer run quickly sufficient by it to get far off from your self. If it particularly is no longer, existence is in simple terms too short to be depressing a million/3 of your existence (a million/2 of your unsleeping time) seem for a sparkling interest yet in simple terms be sure you have a comparible island to land on till now you bounce deliver. each so often circumstances do exactly not extra healthful people and vice-versa... exceptionally be happy, yet do no longer decrease your nostril off to spite your face.

2016-11-23 17:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

learn to adjust to these people. find interest you share. who says you have to be friends with other employees your there to do your job not to socialize. socializing takes your mind off of the objective at hand which is to do your job to your best abilities.

2007-03-09 01:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by jack 4 · 1 0

well if you can, have another job opportunitie somewhere else, and you get paid the same or similar, I would change.

2007-03-09 01:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by natalia k 7 · 0 0

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