THE SCENARIO IS AS FOLLOWS - YOU MEET A GUY/WOMAN AND HAVE BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER FOR A WHILE NOW - DO YOU LET HIM/HER KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE DONE IN THE BEDROOM OR RATHER KEEP QUIET???
2007-03-09 01:18:38 · 12 answers · asked by CLEVER 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would answer any questions they have of me, as I would expect from them.
2007-03-09 01:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep quiet. What you have done in the past is your business, not your partners. The need to know of any STD's, that 's just to be on the safe side. You can also let them know what you will, won't, or willing to try.
2007-03-09 09:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to hear all the details of what some other person has done with my partner. If you want, you could ask, outside the bedroom, if they have done this or that before and then add your 2 cents.
2007-03-09 09:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by bernel1403 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I generally follow a don't ask, don't tell policy where my and my current partner's previous bedroom activities are concerned. Telling of your exploits can smack of bragging and boasting or it can leave your current partner feeling inadequate to your past lovers. It is a Pandora's box that should be left shut.
2007-03-09 09:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by J J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask dont tell. that is a good policy to live be in a situation like this one. i have told a past partner about things, and the guy i am with now must think that i am naive, because i havent told him anything. I hav ent told him anything because of my last partner. that is why i live by the dont ask dont tell policy. I think that it is safer that way
2007-03-09 12:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by n8_justice 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only things you need divulge are your 'disease' status and what you will and won't try. It IS your partner's business to know if you've ever had an STD of any kind, but it is NOT their business to know your sexual history in terms of specific acts and other partners.
2007-03-09 09:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jahn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd keep quiet. The only things they need to know is if you have any STDs (or could) and what you are willing to do in bed with them. :)
2007-03-09 09:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by searching_please 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my current boyfriend for owe around six years now. we are now both 22. and when we met , up we hammered out certain dislkes, and. what we expected of each other in life. we are two deeply comited gays and love each other dearly. anyways one of the bigest mistakes is rambling on about so and so in your past. leave it alone and concerate on who you are with not somebody from the past.DANGER, ZONE AREAS.
2007-03-09 09:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep quiet, if you love, respect and want to keep your partner.
2007-03-09 09:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it quiet. Sometimes past truths can come back to haunt you.
2007-03-09 10:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by MS.MOCHA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep quiet unless the relationship becomes serious enough that you can joke about it, but it depends on the nature of your talk, who you are with, and would nt add too much detail, just in case..........I do and me and my gf laugh about it---she mostly makes fun of me------but she used to have sex with boys yuk
2007-03-09 10:30:44 · answer #11 · answered by alex grant 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋