Explain the relationship and remind me why you guys are not promiscious animals
2007-03-09 00:59:44 · 16 answers · asked by Jenny F 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
for me it is about love
why limit your self to only being able to love one gender
when some one else could come along that is better
or there is a more caring your in touch person you feel for
trusting you feelings is way more important then anything
and your feelings can go either way
as
love has no boundaries age, race, gender or disability
so it is to find love more then to find a good sex partner
2007-03-09 02:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The point is that a bisexual can feel attraction to either men or women. It doe NOT mean ALL men and ALL women. I am bisexual, and I have known this since I was 13. I am now 40, and I have had only two partners in all that time, both of whom were men. I don't think anybody can say I am promiscuous.
You may be wondering how I know I am bi, if I have not had a relationship with a woman. It's not about who you have sex with. It's about who you are attracted to.
2007-03-09 09:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Robin W 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have always been bisexual even before I had the vocabulary to name it. I am almost 54years old, and have experienced relationships with both men and women, and find that in every case its all about the person, not the genitalia. Four years ago I found my other half. Girlfriend, lover, best friend, companion, submissive and masochist, she is everything I had hunted for my entire life. She completes me in a way that no other person ever did, we make a perfect circle. In a D/s(Domination and submission) lifestyle commitments are negotiated and contracted. Unlike vanilla folk, the formality and protocol of our lifestyle leaves no reason for promiscuity, we simply recognize we are sexual creatures and allow ourselves free exploration of exactly what that means. I am a monogamous person, and always have been, and since my commitment is in blood, honoring it holds me to a higher standard than a vanilla marriage or relationship.
I hope you are not suggesting that heterosexuals and homosexuals are not promiscuous and can only commit to one person, because you and I both know that is incorrect.
2007-03-09 09:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure that there is at least ONE committed bisexual person out there. If there's one, then obviously it's possible. Bisexual only means that the person likes males and females. It doesn't determine the character of someone. I read in Glamour that most bisexual women don't identify as bisexual after 5 years and most end up being married (committed) to men.
2007-03-09 09:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by bernel1403 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I identify as bisexual - I dated guys and girls in my "younger" days. Then settled down for a decade long lesbian relationship (which ended when I caught her cheating on me with a hetero married woman). Now I am married to a man. But still consider myself bisexual (and still involved in the LBGT community). I have been faithful to all my partners. I just don't discriminate on the basis of gender. :)
2007-03-09 10:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by searching_please 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take it from me, a monogamous bisexual woman, that bisexuality means only one thing: you are capable of being with both genders sexually.
There are polyamorous and monogamous bisexuals both, just like there are polyamorous and monogamous straight and gay people. Maybe you should take a look at these really good articles:
http://world.std.com/~khvastun/fence/010monogamy.html
http://world.std.com/~khvastun/bi/poly.html
Hope that helps you understand that huge overgeneralizations work for nobody, bisexuals included.
2007-03-09 14:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen, you mean spirited bigot (and I know you're gay, but you're still a bigot), bisexuality is no more taboo than being a lesbian or a gay person. That attraction we feel towards members of the same sex is felt toward both genders. I'm a little jealous, to be honest.
2007-03-09 09:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Who cares really? If being bisexual is what makes them happy then so be it....who are you to question the validity of their sexuality?
As long as everyone involved is honest and upfront about whats going on - then there is absolutely nothing wrong.
2007-03-09 09:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you are attracted to and who you are committed to are 2 different things. we are committed to each other and have been for 26 years but we are attracted to both men and women since we are both bisexual.
2007-03-09 10:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by billnrhonda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it simply means their attractions are not limited to one gender or the other, it has no bearing on their ability to seek and remain committed to one individual.
Promiscuity is simply another stereotype pushed on others by those who seek to point fingers.
2007-03-09 09:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋