i do not have any desire for sex is it normal.and my husband doesn't show any desire either what can i do?is something wrong with me.?he can not satisfy me any more and he reach his orgasm so fast like 1 min or 2 at last what should i do?
2007-03-09 00:31:58 · 13 answers · asked by sue 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you guys are both ok not doing it right now then hold off.Or just mess around doing other things like oral?!
2007-03-09 00:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If neither of you have any desire, just stop beating yourself up over it. There is nothing wrong with you. He's probably reaching orgasm faster because it's so long between sexual intercourse, lol.
If it's something you want to be doing and feel that he should be fulfilling your needs, then talk about it. Openness and honesty are the best things in a marriage. Trust me.
Buy a little sex toy, just something small that vibrates and use that for your own stimulation during sex. It works!
2007-03-09 08:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different during pregnancy...some women are very amarous, and some just don't want to be touched. I am currently 33 weeks along with my second child and well, i was very amarous during the second trimester (I couldn't get enough) and now I just want to be left alone. It may also be that your husband is nervous because you are pregnant...with our first mine was really afraid he would hurt the baby, even though I explained it to him. It took my OB talking to him to help him understand sex wouldn't hurt the baby. Now, have you asked your husband what is wrong? Maybe just talking would help :) Let me know how things go, and in the meantime focus on yourself and the wonderful new baby coming in a few weeks!
2007-03-09 08:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by tree_stump50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a chance your husband's changed performance is because he is concerned that sex during pregnancy, particularly long, physical sex, may damage the baby. Most fathers-to-be find their pregnant wives very attractive, but worry that both mother and unborn child are too fragile. Lots of couples go through this same problem during pregnancy.
My advice would be to assure him he won't hurt you or the baby, as long as you avoid the missionary style.
The amazing skin and enlarged breasts of pregnant women can be very attractive.
2007-03-09 08:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by lazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pregnant. Your hormones have gone crazy and there's a lot of stress on you both with the approaching date of delivery. Just chill and after the baby is born things will get back to normal. :)
2007-03-09 08:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sex drive changes while you are pregnant. it will probably come back at the end of your pregnancy or after you have the baby,
your husband may be trying not to pressure you because he knows you arent interested right now. he will get interested again soon too.
2007-03-09 08:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by R L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang!!! 1 or 2 mins thats too fast. If you do it for 60 mins that means you'll have 30mins of *** in you.
2007-03-09 08:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey slow down girl....
sex with a preggy girl is a delightful thing but maybe your husband is tired and all...or maybe too excited to because he likes to go on thrusting knowing you are preggy......
there is nothing wrong with you. be honest wit your hubby. tell him to go slower and if he goes off before you, tell him to keep on thrusting until u come.
yes it is pretty normal for a pregnant girl not to have interest in sex but seldom girls do, it depends in the "drive" thing.
2007-03-09 08:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by generbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal but its also probably a new thing for your husband to have his wifes belly so big. Have you explained to him that this has no harmful side effects to the baby, and actually can relieve your stress of carrying the baby?
2007-03-09 08:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by brittneyisacracker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try advertising for a lover with a pregnant fetish. I'll bet you will be VERY popular with some of the perverts.
2007-03-09 08:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋