her gambling has has put us in the hole so i am closing the bank acc.she said our marriage is over . i dont even know how to feel about that,what am i to her?she doesnt even like to make love anymore.it feels like i beg for sex she makes me wait letting me know she realy does not want me.i try to kiss her neck or rub her back she tells me to stop,because all i want is sex.i want to make love have her fall into my arms.whats wrong with us ?do you think shes over me.
2007-03-09 00:12:02 · 6 answers · asked by daizy11@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is just using you for money to gamble more of. When she doesn't get what she wants. you don't get what you want. it seems to me you need to dump this chick. there plenty of other people out there.
2007-03-09 00:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has a gambling problem and, though she may not mean to, she's using you. I think you should help her get the help she needs, stand by her, but cut off the funds. You're just feeding the problem with supplying the needed cash.
She may recover and then you can start again, right now, she's unable to do it, because you're dealing with an addict that only wants to feed the addiction. You will always come second to it as long as she has this problem. Help her, but don't drown doing it (that's why rescuers wait until swimmers have gone under their last time [or they knock them out before helping them]).
2007-03-09 00:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she needs a rude awakening..i would close the bank account and let her pout all she wants..she has a gambling problem and i would do all you can to save your money..she should be lucky she has someone that wants a relationship..go with your instincts..good luck
2007-03-09 00:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by twinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think she loves u, just what u can do for her financially. why play the fool any longer if u don't get her off your account, she will leave, and take all your money. she don't love u, u are just the man who pays the bills, and takes care of things. u need to get out of this while u still got some money left.
2007-03-09 00:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs professional help to get over her gambling problem
2007-03-09 00:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cancel her on your bank account and you will lose your problem. there are a lot of women dont be afraid of losing her.
2007-03-09 00:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by dandoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋