They met on the internet, she lied to me about how they met and to her mum. Now they just meet up and have sex. He claims love but I'm not sure as she always calls him rather than the other way round. Please help
2007-03-09 00:00:21 · 8 answers · asked by me m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she got herself IN this, let her get herself OUT of this...
2007-03-09 00:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assalam o alikum
u said "he claims love but i m not sure" means u have to sure about thier relation status.
second thing i want to say all the women to let the guy wait and dont go for premaritial sex. its bad. if u like the guy, get a decent way (i.e. get married) instead of let them using ur mind/ body/ soul for just fun. if u still didnt stop urself, then u will regret one day.
may Allah (God) guide us towards the right path, ameen
2007-03-09 00:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her what you think, but the rest is up to her. Women are sometimes foolish about these things. They don't get it, and they won't listen when people tell them the truth about a guy. It happens all of the time and there's not much you can do about it. Sorry.
2007-03-09 00:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing it's her life and it's her choice to practice stupidity.
okay - tell her how you feel once, maybe twice, but otherwise, focus on you and let her do as she pleases - - - - don' t you have your own issues to deal with? You dont' even know what dreams you're going to pursue or how you're going to get there in life....what the hell are you focusin on her for?
2007-03-09 00:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by jennainhiding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your friend.Let her know how you feel,but don't be pushy.Do it with compassion she probably won't believe you.Remind her that you are her friend and that you care about her.Most importantly let her know you will be there for her when she needs you.It may take a while for her to see, but be there when she does.Good luck with your friend.
2007-03-09 00:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her not to let anyone take advantage of her if she doesnt listen u juss have to sometimes let people find things out on their own and learn 4rom their mistakes
2007-03-09 01:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by jazzmyn b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes the only one that can get herself out of this.
2007-03-09 00:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by Nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her
2007-03-09 00:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by sweta a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋