Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and my parents are tearing us apart!! i need help....
sincerely, courtney
2007-03-08 23:56:56 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't say what the problem is, they must have a good reason. If not talk to them and you can both give you reasons and look at both sides of the problem. They must be worried for a good reason, they have your best interest at best, they are your parents and they love you. If there is some reason they don't like him, have a good look at their reasons, we overlook when we are inlove, it's better to listen to other people when you are on the outside. I didn't listen to my parents and wasted my life on the wrong man and the guy I should have married was the better man, seemed like I downtraded. Now I know. You should have the best, and be treated like the best. Don't overlook any faults with him, that is a big mistake. Even though you love him, he may not be the guy for you to be forever with. Listen to your parents and you will see they are only want the best for you. You deserve it too.
2007-03-09 00:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assalam o alikum,
can u tell us what r the reasons ur parents gave, to tearing ur relation.
+ i recomend u to not go such deep in premarital relation. if the guy is good, he will wait. get some decent way to have him (i.e. if possible get married)
may Allah (God) guide us towards the right path, ameen
2007-03-09 00:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Muslim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age could be a factor...but also maybe your parents don't like your boyfriend, and maybe they think that you are not in a good realationship. Maybe you should try talking to your parents to see how they actually feel.
2007-03-09 00:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age might be a factor... if you are both very young, your parents probably think they are doing whats right for you...
2007-03-09 00:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋