Am obsessed with sex, constantly wet am I lacking something?

Question

Am 37 years old, yes have a vibrator (haven't broke his one yet lol) and have a very willing Fiance its just sex seems to be on my mind 24/7 nowadays when it wasnt before

And it aint discharge! is sexual juices I know that

Answer 1

More information. Please!.

Answer 2

Well, at first glance it sounds like a nice problem to have, but I can understand how this could be distracting. For the moisture problem - light day pads, for the, "gotta have it, can't get enough of it" problem - take fantasy breaks. Yeah, some can just be a few minutes. Let yourself picture something nice, and then carry on. Now they have to be breaks, not in the middle of a meeting or anything. But after the meeting take a five minute fantasy sex break. If you really like what you've imagined, then try it with your S.O.

If you're already doing this then ... I say you do it in the morning, go home for lunch (and maybe have lunch too), and then at some time when you've come home from work. Then I advise tapering off as needed.

Hey, you're still in your sexual peak - enjoy!!

Answer 3

Hi Angelrose,

There are different answers I could give to you but it could be that if you have just a strong appetite for sexual stimulation as some people just do.

But, the need that drives most people towards wanting sex all of the time though, is the same need as wanting power and autonomy in their lives especially when they feel out of control or unable to take control over certain aspects of their lives. Sex is also a natural part of wanting to feel intimacy and closeness as well as sex being a pleasure, so the reasons why you have sex at certain times is going to fulfill different needs at different times. If this is a recent feeling, it does sound like anxiety and is stress related but only you can know what might have triggered the anxiety.

The times when it just feels like it is overwhelming and that you cannot satisfy your appetite alone is when you know that there is something that is causing this strong desire for sex and that is about your needs for personal autonomy where you would like to have more control over parts of your life that you don't normally have. If you feel that you are not doing the things with your life that you would like to and are not very happy, then your fixation upon sex will become stronger because it is the most immediate way you can access autonomy at the present moment and where your appetite will be fueled by the fixation.

This is not an addiction from what I can tell but is just simply a compulsion for stimulation where it is lacking in some other part of your life where you don't feel you have any great deal amount of empowerment, but sex is easier to access and why it is such a popular means of escape for some. I also agree that in women, our hormones are continually on the go but if our appetite is constant and daily and fails to be satisfied, then there is clearly a compulsive need that drives that compulsion in the first instance and why lack of personal autonomy and lack of good self-esteem is causing the fixation to a greater extent.

Lack of autonomy and low self esteem can create anxiety, stress, loneliness and increased likelihood for depression.
can cause problems with friendships and relationships and it can seriously impair academic and job performance.as well as lead to underachievement and increased vulnerability to drug and alcohol abuse and sexual compulsive behaviours.

I have found this link: is http://www.sexhelp.com - it might be helpful I don't know, but I think you can get to the bottom of it once you know what areas of your life you feel you could do with more empowerment?. Sorry I can't give much more than this, but it is usually about wanting to feel personal autonomy through better self-esteem. You are very normal because most people are obsessed about sex and or/other things but they don't know why. I am trained in psychology so I have given expert advice.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Yes, a man. Unless you're very young, which you probably are. In that case, it's normal as your hormones are going crazy. Don't be stupid and have sex just for the sake of it-it's not worth the effort...trust me. The hormones will settle. In the meantime, pleasure yourself. It's the safest sex you can do!

Answer 5

Constantly being wet is something that you will out grow. Enjoy it while you have it because after kids, life, etc. it won't come (no pun intended) as easily. Be sure to practice safe sex or better that that, just get yourself some toys and you can satisfy yourself safely anytime that you feel you need it.

Answer 6

Do you also have mood swings and are you a bit too generous with your spending? (always short on money due to excessive spending) You may be bipolar.
Get it checked out if the other symptoms are there too. IF that's what it is, the sooner you fix it the better.

Answer 7

Maybe your just horny. Like someone suggested, get a vibrator. That should help with the urges. You'll definately be satisfied.

Answer 8

Self Respect! You need to get a Boat Load, before too long. Or this Life will catch up to you. I wish you Luck!

Answer 9

god its ssooo nice to hear that i am not the only one! i have a bf who just cant keep up with me! it kinda sucks cause like you i want it all the time and i think about it ALOT!!! lol just cant help it so yeah take care of your self when your by your self. OR when your man is around play with ur self thats really hot have him hold ur leg or kiss u while your "doin" ur self. it will really help your mind!! oh yeah!!!

Answer 10

You sound more like a 10 year old kid trying to write about something they know nothing about.

Answer 11

Tampons.