Ok so i met this girl a few weeks ago whilst out doing my shopping. We exchanged numbers and after a few weeks later we met up for a coffee (even tho i like tea)
We were just getting to know each other as you do, nothing to serious.Got on fine, said she like to meet up again .....Then i seen her and asked why she hadnt got in touch and said she had a lot on her mind with work and had just finished with some guy before we had met up and just would like to be friends for the moment? so how do women deal with this situation???? she not intrested in me?? or does she just wanna meet some BADBOY SMACKHEAD! BECUZ HES A CHALLENGE????????? LOL ......no seriously
2007-03-08 23:33:54 · 19 answers · asked by toohandsome1111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my guess is that she is not into you at all.........most of the time women use the "friends" word it hard to ever get out of that zone...........so i say let her go find smackhead and you will meet someone someday........good luck
2007-03-08 23:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by jutakai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 22:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real women would npt of even gave you the 1st chance if she felt that way!!! She gave you a 1 there most likly will be a 2nd unless she knows how to play the game... Don't take it serious have fun with it,and go with the flow. remember not to read into it as hard,it's just a freindly date!
2007-03-16 20:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by ~FliZo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously take her word for it. She is being honest with you about you possibly being a rebound. She may be interested but just doesn't want to hurt you and she's just not ready. She may want to loose herself in her work for a bit to help her deal with her ex and all those feelings. Be her friend and see what happens. Good luck! :D
2007-03-08 23:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
since she had just finsihed with a guy before u met, she might not be ready yet for another one. she's still in the process of moving on and one way to move on is see other people, and that happened to be you. do not expect something from her this soon, its good to remain friends for awhile.
2007-03-08 23:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by intense35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she does have a lot on her plate at the moment. If you're patient now and maybe give her a call to see how she's going, without any agenda, you'll probably win her over.
2007-03-08 23:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by HerbGal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello, the lady is probably still scared, she doesnt want to move too fast only to find herself in the same position she was in when she got hurt. if you really like her you will be patient with her, it will earn you more points with her.but again dont take it too slow, still inside she has needs that have to met, and someone will have to be there for her, you got to feel her,
2007-03-16 19:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Joan O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was really straight forward with you. She just broke up with someone and doesn't want to rush things. Besides, you are just getting to know her so you shouldn't expect more than a friendship for now.
2007-03-16 19:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by chicklette0008 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She didn't feel a connection with you, she wants nothing to do with you but doesn't want to hurt your feelings so she's trying to let you down gently. Forget about her and find someone worthy of your time who will be interested in you. You're wasting your time thinking about her.
2007-03-16 19:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend be her shoulder to cry on. You know most girls get REALLY loving;) when crying on a shoulder but just be there for her and show her nice guys don't always finish last.
2007-03-16 17:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by sarahzcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋