i met this guy about 2 months ago and have had a crush on him ever since but he has a girlfriend i've met one time. he goes out 5 or 6 nights a week and never has her with him but i am sure they r dating. At 1st we were just friends and recently started sleeping together and he flirts with ppl in front of me 2 get a reaction and always asks questions about us dating and i know its wrong 2 have sex with a guy who has a gf so pls dont respond 2 tell me that or that he would do the same thing 2 me . i just need 2 know how 2 deal with his games. if he sees a guy talking to me he comes strait over and tries 2 get my attention but will turn around and flirt with girls right in front of me even one of my friends and will even call and text this one friend of mine, and i know i should just walk away but i don't want to i just want 2 know how to deal with the situation and keep my feelings 4 him in check and not let him think his dumb sh** bothers me any help will b appreciated
2007-03-08 23:29:08 · 4 answers · asked by sara a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave him and forget about him and let it all go! Life is too short to play games or put up with the stress/pain that comes with them. If that is worth it to you then by all mean play away. However, I would just move about the real guy who is the "man" for you is out there waiting and desperately calling for you. It just up to you if you want to answer that call or stay on the call you have right now.
2007-03-08 23:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by beer_guy_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well act like it isn't bothering you. When you are talking to other guys, don't pay him any attention if he tries to interrupt or get your attention. Don't spend a lot of time w/him because your feelings will get caught up. Make sure you have a few male friends that you talk to as well, that way you have other options too. You definately want to keep him on his toes, and let him know that you are not going for the games, and that you know how to play them too!
2007-03-09 07:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't play games and if he wants to play games, then go find some kids and play a game with them.
2007-03-09 07:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try backgamon or chess, they're very interesting games.
2007-03-09 07:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Trident10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋